girls if you answer then tell me if you do have lots of male partners and if not why if your good looking you can have most any man . so how come you would not do that.
2007-02-17 06:11:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would....when I'm over 18!
2007-02-17 06:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly. I couldn't read it all. But I can speak generally based on what I did read. You have ONLY been with him for a year. Take it from a guy who has not only steered clear of being promiscuous my whole life. But I have also been married for 18 years to the only woman I loved. We both often reflect back on whether or not we would have done some things differently. We both agree that we wish we hadn't had sex so much after we met. She was 17 and I was 23. We were damn lucky she didn't end up pregnant early on. But I always had good control of that. Anyway. The first year (or more) of a relationship is pure infatuation. "Oh he's the best!" "She's the perfect girl!" blah blah blah. The fact is that you can't know a person that fast these days. Maybe generations ago, people go to know each other faster because life was simpler and ethics and morals were important. People weren't so egocentric. But today things are different. People are so individualized that it takes forever to really know them. So it is very easy for a girl to get with a guy, wait 6 months, and decide he's mister right. Then she gets pregnant. Eventually the infatuation wear thin and true colors come through. He becomes a jerk, or vice versa, and they split. The new baby gets to be raised as a bastard. Seriously this kind of crap needs to stop. Obviously public schools and many parents aren't educating kids well enough for them to know better. We are moving backwards instead of forward. If your guy is watching porn while being in a relationship then he's being a complete idiot. Like it or not. You need to broadcast your feelings at a level he can't ignore. No guy should be sitting around staring at other women's parts, jerking off, while being in a relationship. It's been considered sick for thousands of years. And today is no different. It's still SICK. Tell him to get his head out the girl's azzes or you will throw his azz out. Give an ultimatum and don't waste your precious time on a common porn loving rotten brain soft skinned follower. If more women stuck to principle and threw a guy out the first time and didn't take him back, we would see less manipulation going on.
2016-03-15 21:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were an attractive woman I am assuming you would also have the brain of a woman, so I really don't think you can say you would sleep around when you don't know how women think.
Here's the evolutionary reason why men sleep around more than women: For the vast majority of the evolution of humans up to this point, there was no birth control. A woman having sex with a man was risking getting pregnant, which for a woman means extra food needs, less of an ability to get food and other resources, and the possibility of death. A man can simply have sex with a woman and leave the rest of the work to her, although it increases the child's likelihood of survival if he does stick around and help out (but that's still not as much of a liability as it is for the woman). Therefore, it is in the best intrests of a woman (evolutionarily speaking) to be very picky about who she sleeps with, since it could mean a huge allotment of time and energy, while it is in the best interests of a man to sleep with as many women as possible, to increase the possiblity of fathering a child (since for him it does not mean giving away many resources, and there are many other men also competing for the women).
2007-02-17 06:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a curse. Men either think that just because you have the look you are willing to sleep around. Ignore your intelligence. Or are afraid that they are not good enough for you just because of the way you look. Not to mention the jealousies that put up too many boundries to stop someone who is nice looking from excelling in some areas. No I would not sleep around. There alot more important things in this world to be entertained with.
2007-02-17 06:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, im a hot women and i dont sleep around. My reason because i have more respect for myself! being so pretty i would not let my body be used by men. If i want to have great sex then i would find an attrractive man that i get on with intelectually and have amazing sex.
2007-02-17 06:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by wonder 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't.
If you would, then you're a slut, and you will probably have unwanted pregnancies, a host of interesting sexually transmitted diseases and psychological problems that will plague you the rest of your life.
Do you learn NOTHING from people like Anna Nicole Smith and her ilk? There is a price to pay when you abandon morals and ethics and standards.
2007-02-17 06:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It all seems such a long time ago now :)... but I could never stand good looking men because they were only ever massaging their ego's at my expense.
Looks aren't everything, and I'd much prefer and honest to goodness sincere guy anyday
2007-02-17 06:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly. In fact I do that now. When ever I get the chance. Which isn't often cause I'm picky...he has to be hot and perferably married. I like the fatherly type.
2007-02-17 06:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am good lookin, female and have a few bed partners. i just keep few. due to diseaes. needless to say i make sure they are clean so i stay that way. as well as get checked. i can't speak for other women but that's how i see it.
2007-02-17 06:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by i hate undies! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dfont have to be a woman
i get enogh sexual parters as a man
they like me cuase im wealthy and im a jail house bad boy
2007-02-17 06:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋