In the past she has been very flirty with me, always pay me attention, laughs at my stupid humor, touches me or makes contact with me alot, has suggested that we hook up a few times when she was drunk, let's me grab her butt, gets very shy when we are alone together. Now today she brings up the fact that she has not been able to do number 2 for 4 days. We joked about it for like 15 minutes, laughed quite a bit and discussed other issues and had a great conversation but I'm concerned about this because I dont feel girls would talk about something like this with someone they have a crush on. What do you all think ?
2007-02-17 06:02:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people say stupid stuff when they're nervous. Perhaps this is just the first thing that came to her head. I'd let it pass, if it happens again just tell her you are uncomfortable talking about her bowel habits.
2007-02-17 06:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by gourmetkid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls feel very free talking about such personal things. I can understand that you are not used to this behavior. Most girls are not that open. Especially with a potential bf. She is eather just very bold , and feels comfortable with you, or she thinks of you as like a brother. I think because you said she is shy with you when you are alone, that this is just a tactic to keep a distance from you because she is afraid of being intimate with you. That would be the only reason I would share that information with a guy. To put him off. It certainly would not be to bring you closer.
2007-02-17 14:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she feels comfortable enough around you to tell you something like that.Honestly most females would not find that as a conversation to have, not even with their boyfriends.I mean it's weird but it's not something you should hold against her, the next time she decides to bring up something uncomfortable to you, let her know how you feel and that it's not a turn on to you.Maybe she's someone you want to just stay friends with, because obviously you can't handle her bluntness.Like I said she feels comfortable in the time that you have spent together to share that with you, if it's a problem for you let it be known.
2007-02-17 14:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she can't use the bathroom must really be bothering her. She seems to see you as someone that she feels comfortable sharing this information with.
Should a person not be honest about a problem with someone they have a crush on?? Maybe she wants to see how you would react. Maybe you should let her know that you are "concerned" so she will be more guarded about what to share with you.
2007-02-17 14:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that because you havn't returned any of her signals, she has decided that you must not be interested in her, and thus she is going to work on being nothing more than a friend with you. If you have a crush on her, then flirt and see where it goes, if not then just enjoy her company.
2007-02-17 14:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by elvishbard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your if she is going to be yur girlfriend soon then you need to be her best friend and she needs to be able to talk to you about anyhing...even doing number 2..do anything you have to not to make her feel uncomotable about what she said even if you have to make jokes.. so you did the right thing to joke around about it and make her laugh..
2007-02-17 14:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by i miss himm.alott? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more a girl gets into a comfort zone with a man she will be more willing to ask odd questions, say what's on her mind. It' is normal.
2007-02-17 14:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she feels very comfortable around you.It's usually like that in a long term relationship or a marriage.
2007-02-17 14:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, I wouldn't tell my crush that.
She's been dropping you hints that she likes you, but since you didnt ask her out yet, she probably thinks you just want to be friends.
She told you something you would just tell a friend. Ask her out if you really like her. She'll be really happy, and probably will say yes.
2007-02-17 14:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems pretty odd to me also* Guess she felt comfortable enough to bring that personal info to your attention.
Sad tho, that she has to be "drunk" to be open with you. That would make me wonder alot of questions about her.
Wait till she's sober..and ask her to go out*goodluck*
2007-02-17 14:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋