all my life i was told that love is sweet and love is hell too!! thats why all my life i didn't say (i love you) to any girl i've dated and thats
may be the reason why i cant have a long relationship!!!
THIS IS MY REAL problem :
i met this girl , she is nice ,sweet and pretty . we're togather for 2
weeks but some how i feel like she is the one for me coz she make feel like i wanna love and she makes me love to live my life!!
i wanna tell here that i love here and i wanna make here feel like
the way she makes me feel !!
i dont know how to tell here that and i really dont know what to do?
help me cause i dont wanna do something stupid !!!
2007-02-17 05:56:16 · 14 answers · asked by ErrorPage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell her that you love her just at the beginning of your relationship. Wait at least 4 or 5 months before you tell her that. Otherwise you're gonna blow it.
2007-02-17 06:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by turbo speak engine ver. 12 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Timing is important. I told a girl I was crazy for that I dated for a few weeks, that I loved her, she couldn't tell me the same, and I was offended. I didn't date her again for a couple months, but luckily we got back together. Later she told me that she she liked me alot at that point, but couldn't say that it was love yet. She realized what had happened and eventually wanted to get back with me. I realize that I made a mistake and it was too soon. She now tells me all the time she loves me. We have been married for 4 years now.
So my point is that things maybe going great, though it is likely too soon for the "I love you" point in the relationship. First do something nice, that shows what what she means to you. Think deeper than just buying something, but not something too forward for the point in the relationship.
2007-02-17 14:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by bakegoodz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you love her! That would be a mistake and probably send her running for the hills. Two weeks? Come on! Two years, maybe. Just be with her as much as possible, without seeming like a cling-on. Compliment her when she looks nice, tell her she smells good when she does. In other words, just enjoy the time you have with her and don't make the mistake of acting like you can't live without her. Watch the movie Hitch.... finally, never let anyone see you call yourself a loser. Saying you're a loser is the only thing that makes you one.
2007-02-17 14:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Error page .. and the picture, are very original. So you must be an original boy.
Your words sound not only sweet, they sound honest .. and with humble "tone".
.. I really don't know what ideas i could give you .. but.... Just be in the way you are. Surprise her, everyday .. i don't know with somenthing different. One day a flower, another day a chocolate, another day a song, another day a poem ... etc, etc....No routins, always somenthing different... And if she opens to you, just give her a sweet and short kiss (in a little while of course, not tomorrow) ... and say " I Love you"...
Yes, do somenthing like that .. come on, let's be honest, we women love that ...
2007-02-17 14:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be to soon for the I love you's anyway, but its o.k. to say i like you very much. If thats not enough then may be a pink rose/w a card that says to someone special at least that would let her know you care. P.S. Sir you're no loser look around you in the winners circle.
2007-02-25 13:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by robbinorama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look her straight in the eyes, tell her that you never felt complete until you met her. Then ask her if she thinks she could wake up every morning for the rest of her life and see your mug next to her. If you don't scare her off running, then she will probably know you love her. You could sit her down next to your computer and show her the question that you posted.
2007-02-17 14:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of ways to say "i love you" to your girl without actually saying the exact words. showing her you care for her the most is very effective, or giving her what she likes even if it means taking something away from you. then when the time comes that you feel it's mutual, you will muster confidence and tell her straight that you indeed love her.
good luck!
2007-02-25 09:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is really sweet. Just try to be nice to her and treat her well. If she loves you, she's gonna love you come rain or shine. Just be a good guy. Thats all we really want.
2007-02-17 14:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man just make sure that when u say it that u dont just mean it for the moment...u mean it for when u say it till forever...i know how u feel...but honestly kid its to early to tell her u love her...she gon think u crazy...an me personally u fallin for her to fast...take things slow u dont know her that much...after awhile of dating maybe 3 4 months or so...if u feel that its rite then say it...but dont feel stupid whn she doesnt say it back it just means that she probably feels the same but shes scared to say it so soon
2007-02-17 14:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you have to have confidence in yourself. If she is with you, she probably likes you.
when you say i love you for the 1st time you have to find a special moment when you are alone and say it. If you are still not sure, you can wait until she says it and then say it back.
2007-02-17 14:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋