Why isen't there someone for me now?

Question

Lonlyness is a feeling so overwelming sometimes that it hurts.
Why isent there a girl for me that i can talk to & have fun make her lough buy her cool stuff...
The problem aint me i'm not ugly i'm not uncool but it's where i live if i where somewhere else it'll be difrant.
I just want a good company that's all can i find it here...?

Answer 1

Loneliness can certainly be overwhelming. Unfortunately, the advice I will give you is likely what you have heard before but even the best of advice is no guarantee that loneliness will be combatted. You mention that it is where you live. Is it that you are living in an isolated area? Even remote areas will have places where people gather; whether it is courses at a community centre; library or clubs. First and foremost; find something that truly interests you whether it is digital photography or music or some other interest. Then, through your interests you may well meet people who are similarly interested in the same subject. Even if you don't you will be at least taking steps to combat loneliness. Have you condidered online relationships? Begin with friendship as your goal and keep the relationships light as you get to know and trust people. You don't mention whether you are going to school or whether you have a job. Wherever you are, tell people that you are looking to meet people; from those connections, other introductions may follow. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Maybe your just not looking in the right places. Have you looked at any of your friends. Looking that a friend is one of the best lover and friend could find. She could be right under your noise and you can't see her. You have to remember that love is not on the out side. You have to look with in someone. Why don't you look at yourself first and then you ME find what you have been looking for. t

Answer 3

you are correct about lonliness: people in our day and age just are not getting it that cyberspace and ipods do not provide the companionship that all crave. everyone needs to feel that he is loved. everyone.

i don't know WHERE you are. if you are out in farmland, at least there is usually a church. would you go to church and then to their coffee club after church, so socialize?

else, you can go to the dating sites on the net. i have not heard much good about even one of them, however, not even the one that is so heavily advertised on TV. if you do, state what you did state above, what you want to do with the woman you meet. i like it because it is human and broad. it doesn't just zone in on sex, though sex is such an important part of manhood and also, being a woman. but i really don't like it when men in cyberspace being to talk to me about sex: i never talked to them on the phone, i never went out on a date with them, who do they think they are, anyways??? bet they wouldn't say that stuff to my face!

yet, i bet you could describe what you want, just as you say above, to any woman's face. good for you!

Answer 4

you lost your virginity thru masturbation, didn't ya....sorry dude there is only a hand full of women like what you are looking for, and they have their hands full. You are going to have to lower your expectations and take that self fish homely pathetic girl that just wants to have babies, at least you are going to have some kids that will always love you.

Answer 5

You're looking thats why, its comes when you least expect it. Watch for the signs buddy!

Answer 6

Where do you live?

Answer 7

yeah well im the same, exept im a girl.
it sucks. i live like miles away from anyone i know!

Answer 8

Cuz u just need to wait...the right one will come when you least expect it.

Answer 9

There might be if you could spell properly !!

Answer 10

Maybe cause your on crack