My boyfriend called me about an hour ago and told me not to call his house cuz he was gonna be outta town, and would not be back til' Mon. night. Well, I had a friend over and her boyfriend goes to school with my boyfriend her boyfriend said my boyfriend was at a friends house He thought at a party I am only 14 soo.. No drinking was there(hope not) What the heck to I say to him?
2007-02-17 05:02:04 · 16 answers · asked by Zack & Daela 4-Eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you know he was at a party and why did he lie to you
2007-02-17 05:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, if he was going to be out of town, of coarse you wouldn't call cause what's the point in that? So the fact that he asked you not to call was the "tell". Everybody gives away the truth in some way. If he's going to lie to you and go to a party, then his behavior at the party must have been questionable, for whatever reason. You are 14, move on...there will be someone better soon. and I'm not lyin.
2007-02-17 13:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by tonysmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he lied so he could go to the party,without you.My advice to you is if he lied to you once he will do it again.He probably wanted to go to the party single.So that should tell you he can't be trusted as well.Always find out the facts before you ask him about it, don't always rely on what other people tell you.Get proof that he was in fact at the party,and then confront him.Then what you decide to do after that is up to you,ask yourself do you want to be with someone that is going to lie to you,or do you want to be with someone that wants to spend time with you, and that you can trust.Your still young, don't start off excepting guys that are going to be dishonest with you, you deserve better.
2007-02-17 13:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14, you will have other boyfriends. Don't be in a hurry to get married. There are other fish in the sea. I have dump my boyfriends, they were mad at me but they probably got over it. Tell him you found out the truth and if he doesn't confess, tell him, forget it. You are only 14. Be careful who you date. You could get yourself in alot of trouble.
2007-02-17 13:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by blazek35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something trickie, to get him into a hole monday night, like, so how was ur wkend, whered u go wutd u do , did u ge tme a suvineior? etc., and then after a while b like i kno that you were at a party, so u dont have to lie to me, and idk y u would have, unless you were cheating or something, something like that... or u could make a move b4 its too late, and call him b4 the party, text him, but dont be too clingy and stuff, and then after sometime of not answering u or if he does, ask him about the party, and like question him n stuff, but good luck!
2007-02-17 13:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the party was out of town...so i dont know..i'm sure he was going to tell you were he is, just whenever you talk to him agian ask him where he was and what all he did and see if he tells you, and if he doesnt then tell him that your friends boyfriend told you that he thought that your boyfriend was at a party, and see what he says then..and whatever he tells you see if you believe him and if you dont then it's not worth it to be with him..sorry...and good luck on that
2007-02-17 13:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by angelbabytrc07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh.........I think he didn't want you to bother him this weekend becuase he had plans. Just tell him to be honest with you because if he is not this is not good for a relationship. You will begin not to trust him. Don't get yourself all upset. Its his problem not yours. He knows your young and cannot go to certain places(your parents won't let you or something) and he also knows that you can't see what he is doing. Just talk to him about it and do it calmly. If you get mad then he knows he got to you.
2007-02-17 13:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by stuffyluvbug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14...boyfriends are a dime a dozen. Time for a new boyfriend :).
2007-02-17 13:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kristi B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself...is this the kind of guy i want to be around? Does he have the character that meets your standards? If he does then you must not think too much of yourself. Dump him. :)
2007-02-17 13:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by rob k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight out ask him why he lied to you. but if hes the kind that would overreact then try to find out by other means. or maybe he just wanted some time to himself to relax, if hes stressed out then that would probably be it, so just let it go. but if he continues to do this then straight out ask him.
2007-02-17 13:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋