what should i do?

Question

we broke up last friday the 9 th and he bought me a real roses dipped in gold and he told me that he wont stop loving me until it dies and its not ever going to so what should i do because i belived it but his love stop but the roses is not died we are both young im 16 hes 18 is there a chance that we get back 2 gether some momments are harder than others some are easier but you here everyday gets a liitle harder but for me everyday gets a harder i treaeted him like dirt i was not ready for that kind of serious relationship but we been fighting but we were friends still fighting now i want to be friends he says he dont care but how can i show him i love him and that i wopnt treat him like dirt ive open my eyes somethings i dont get cause im young but thats okay i will understand i have 3 pics in my carof him and me and i look at him and cry why i treated him like i did im a stupid he got me a bear that says i love you i look at kiss the pics and use the bear to say i love u to sleep

Answer 1

It seems to me that you need to step back and think about this. You seem confused as far as what you want. First, you say that you were not ready for this type of commitment then you say you feel bad about treating him bad. You might be treating him bad because you are just not ready to be committed like that. Just give it a while and you will be able to make the right decision. Remember, know what you want first and then go for it. If this is not what you want then do not force it. You will feel alot better once you just take a breather from his insistent love. If it is meant to be you will be together if not then you will have to find a new road.