There's this girl I'm interested in, and things were going quite well, I was getting to know her pretty well and we talked like we were pretty good friends. Then, starting this week, she's totally ignored me in school, seems like she's extremely distant when I talk to her online, and you get the idea.
I'm contemplating giving up on her. I hate it when it feels like I've violated someone's space, and it seems like I've done it here. It's already hard for me to get comfortable around most girls in the first place.
All I really want is someone. It's not like, totally urgent, but well, I just want the feeling, for once.
2007-02-17 04:56:28 · 6 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say tell her what you're thinking. At this point it seems you have nothing to loose. Tell her that you're interested, and that you were having a great time getting to know her. Say that you've noticed she has been distant recently and if there is a reason for it you don't want to keep bothering her, but if you're misreading her you don't want to make the mistake of loosing her. Tell her you don't mean to sound desperate, explain that it takes you a while to feel comfortable around girls, and see what she has to say. You might find out that she likes you too, and just got nervous, or that she's over you and you need to move on, but either way at least you'll know!
2007-02-17 05:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by yentruoc311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot that could be going on...
Family issues, school, did she get grounded? Maybe things weren't moving as quickly as she had hoped with you and she had given up on you asking her out, etc.
Try to talk to her, tell her you can tell something is bothering her and be an ear for her. Offer to just listen. Tell her how you feel. :-)
You know, she may not be the right person for you. If that's the case, just sit back and it will happen, with the right person, when it's the right time. Focus on you and just enjoy life. Things will fall into place when they are meant to. :-)
Good luck!
2007-02-17 05:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by turnerzgirl101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, i remember there being quite a few guys in my life that i was interested in but never said anything and then found out when the feelings were gone that, they too had feelings for me but didn't think they "had a chance" so they never said anything. There's nothing worse than finding out later what you COULD have had if only you had the guts to say something. If she says no then you're no worse off, whats there to lose?
2007-02-17 05:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there might just be something else going on in her life right now, give it a little more time. If she continues acting like this, back off and see how she reacts, if she likes you she will come back, eventually. If not, that is your answer, and be prepared to move on should it occur.
And try not to sound so pessimistic, I honestly think you're overreacting a little, it's only been a week!
2007-02-17 05:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she probly got a boifriend because when we stop talking to u...then that means we just got a boyfriend..but if u haven't seen her wit n e one or heard of anything..then theres probly just something else on her mind like school or just plain familly things. dont worry you'll get through this and she'll talk to u again!! ;-]
2007-02-17 05:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear dat sweety but dun worry it happens alot all u have to do is just move on......n if u needed to talk abt anythn am der
2007-02-17 05:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by shenequa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋