when your ex does not want to respect your wish of not to do things at your house...?

Question

My ex after over a year of dating we broke it in a bad way; after he said he needed a girl so I said go get her, even with that, we got back together months later for him to say what if he meet someone and we break up again. So I broke it up again; it is ridiculous. We continued seeing each other After a whole year and months he remained single only seeing me; then one day after starting to share napking, spoon, he held my hands and I let him. but after that day he was distant and different from before. He saw me hurt for 3 long months and ignored my question as of why do what he did to then back off? 7 months passed; he came to my home but then he will undo his pants from eating too much and fix the botton and belt and show his skin in front of me; I told him it was wrong; he scratched himself twice I told him not to do it here but he feels offended I said it about I see his skin. He deffends his position and does not care if he cannot come anymore; now he ignores me and is hard

Answer 1

Your question(s) reek of neediness and helplessness. TAKE CHARGE OF THIS SITUATION and look for someone who respects you. I suggest you get some good counselling to help yourself realize that if a man doesn't meet you halfway, he ain't worth crying over.....

Good Luck

Answer 2

he's ur ex why is he still in ur house?Get him out of ur house get a restraining order if u have to. It's over between u two so why do u still care about what he thinks? I think u need to make a decision whether or not u still like him coz it's not clear to me at the moment