If a woman sleeps with a man on a first date is she too easy?

Question

Would like female and male perspectives

Answer 1

Not necessarily. Maybe she is old enough, wise enough and sensible enough to know what shes doing. And confident enough to not care what people think of her.
The only time I would object to her doing that is if she feels she has to, that she 'owes' the guy for the date, that it is the expected thing. Or if she deliberately delays sleeping with a guy she wants to in order to control him.

Answer 2

Well, if you like each others personality, are having a good time, and enjoy sex; there is nothing wrong with that. It's not being called easy at all. Just living in the moment and doing what you want is how we should be.

It's easy resisting temptation when you think you'll have another chance at it later. but, after so long you realize you usually don't, so you have to do what you will when given the chance!

Answer 3

To me, if a woman who I have had some connection with and then we started dating and we "slept together" on our first date, I wouldn't say that she was easy.

However, if she was only someone that you picked up or had just met and you sleep together, then I would say that she was "easy".

IF she sleeps with everyone that she casually dates, then she is "too easy".

IF she is too easy and you choose to "sleep" with her, then by all means get checked and use protection!

Answer 4

Well the man in question would have to also be willing to have sex also, so if your view is that sex at such an early stage of a relationship is wrong then any blame should be apportioned equally.

Personally I think too much is made of people sexual practices in relation to their morality, If someone chooses to have sex on a first date it gives no indication of how suitable a long term partner they are and I would not think any less of someone who did have sex on the first date.

Answer 5

I think so. A woman could have many first dates, and if she always slept with guys on the first date, that'd be a lot of guys. Personally I feel like sex should be something after a relationship is really established.

Answer 6

I think it depends on the circumstances, if your both sure that's what you want then it doesn't make you easy. Why would it not make the guy easy for having sex on a first date, i notice nobody asks that. Times have changed and sex isn't a taboo subject at all. Just make sure it's safe sex being practised.

Answer 7

if a man sleeps with a woman on a first date is HE too easy?

Answer 8

Yes - she will of course say that she is only doing what a man does, she likes sex etc but really, basically, she is being very easy. Women should have a bit of respect for themselves. It's unlikely that a man would date you for that long afterwards - wouldn't he always wonder if she is that easy with him, she will be with other men too..........

Answer 9

I have never had a long term relationship with anyone I slept with on a first date!
Wouldn't say they were easy! Just me being a good salesman with a great product!

Answer 10

depends on your age... women over 30 have a very different perspective on this they say that because of there age they know more of what there doing and what they want were as some younger females jump into bed without thought...

Answer 11

Yes.. If you sleep with this guy on the first date, whose to say you don't just sleep with every guy on the first date. Guys? Don't you agree? We automatically lose interest because there is no challenge anymore.