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i am like so in love with my best friends boyfriend wat should i do and like before he went out with my best friend he told me he loved me and asked to go out with me but i refused to go out with him because my best friend liked him and he eventually asked her out did i do the right thing

also my best friend did that to me once she went out with a guy i loved alot and she didnt care bout me
HELP ME!!!!

2007-02-17 04:13:35 · 4 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

well who cares if your best friend double-crossed you, at least YOU know you did the correct thing by not going out with the guy she liked. now, if you like the guy and the guy still likes you then let him break up with her (don't encourage it, just wait) because sooner or later, if he does like you, he will break up with her. still, it would be wrong to immediately start going out with your best friend's ex (it would seem too suspicious), but that's just friendship ethics, and not everyone follows them (your friend for example).
it really is just up to you to continue swooning over this guy or if you move on since he is in a relationship with you BEST friend. it just wouldn't be right if you tell the guy your feelings in this situation, and I know a lot of people will probably suggest "screw your friend, tell the guy" for what she did to you, but it isn't the moral thing to do. just give it time, but one thing i do suggest is you ask the guy how he feels about your friend and you... in a subtle way.

2007-02-17 04:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0 0

I say that you tell your best friend that he said he has feelings for you.. I don't think you should keep things behind her back, for if she finds out then she will be mad at you. And then you guys will be fighting over a boy, which is never fun. But.. talk to the boy and see what he wants.. and then if he says he likes you and stuff, then you should tell your best friend. Also, I think you did the right thing by telling him no.

2007-02-17 12:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well get the guys attention then after a while tell your freind to get off u like him

2007-02-17 12:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by bronte d 2 · 0 0

wait and c

2007-02-17 12:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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