Okay, I don't know how to explain this but my gf and I have been together for over a year. She then broke up with me and later came back. Now she said she's confused. I asked her how much she love me and she said little. And few days ago I told her you're my sunshine and she replied you're not my only sunshine. And then her what do you think of our relationship and she said she doesn't know. I asked her if she likes someone right now beside me and she said no but doesn't know. I don't know what she's thinking. She told me that sometimes she misses me and sometimes she doesn't miss me. What is your advice ? Please write as much as you can for me because I need feedbacks. Thank you so much everyone.
2007-02-17 04:10:17 · 12 answers · asked by Lomus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may be confused but it doesn't sound like she is interested in you anymore. Find someone else. Time will heal whatever pain or hurt you will have.
2007-02-17 04:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like she needs to miss you a lot more to know what she is missing out. Just think about that it's better that she is honest or maybe she's not that mature enough to be involve in a relationship at the time and she wants to have her options open for opportunities. Check out her past relationships and ask yourself " is she capable to maintain a long term relationship?" . I have a couple of friends who get cold feet and decide that they rather be along because they are not completely satisfy. I know it sucks but you can't change people and specially the way they feel about something.
Oh, and don't ask too many questions you're the man and you are the one who's secured of what you got, be strong and good luck.
2007-02-17 04:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where your coming from, this just happened to me. You should give her her space if you really like this girl enough to deal with her baggage. Still let her know that you are interested but also let her know that there is no pressure on her to make a decision right away. In the mean time I think you should look around for someone else. Maybe seeing or hearing about you with someone else will make her make her mind up faster, but if not then you have the new person to deal with now. I know this must be hard given your long history together, but let her decide what she wants for herself because when you pressure her she'll just distance herself from you even more. Remember she's going through some stuff just like you.
2007-02-17 04:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by trumpetgod_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot have a good, health relationship with a confused heart. dude, you should split up for now until she gets her thoughts straight or else YOU are in an empty, one-sided relationship. if you continue being in the relationship where she MIGHT like someone else, you're going to wake up one morning and realize she's with the other guy because she was just "so confused." it would be a lot better for you, and it would really help her see what she wants... and from what she is saying to you, being with you is not really what she wants. you have to let her go despite you liking her so much because then she will only feel pressured to remain with you and nothing good can possibly come of that.
2007-02-17 04:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, and hope I'm wrong, but usually when a girl will not articulate why she is confused or upset it is because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. You are probably a very nice guy that hasn't done anything wrong (cheating, being a jerk, lying) and she doesn't know how to end it because she knows you didn't do anything to 'deserve' it. Some girls just act weird or standoffish until the guy breaks up with them, that way the girl doesn't have to feel guilty...yeah, it's a crappy thing to do, but almost all girls have done this so they don't have to be the bad guy.
let her go...she will come back if she realizes her error...and if you let her come back. ;) good luck!
2007-02-17 04:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by kalamazooqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like how sweet you are with her. She might think you are being cheesy. Try backing off from her for a couple weeks and she'll wonder what's up. Just tell her it was clear that she needed space. So stay away long enough for her to miss you and don't over-do the lovey dovey stuff.
2007-02-17 04:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is go bang your head against a wall, because at least you know that its going to fell good when you stop.
take a walk go find a girl who's a little more mature, and not attached to anyone else like this one obviously is.
2007-02-17 04:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is totally confused--- i think she may like another person but isnt sure-- thats why she isnt keeping up with u a lot-- check her out for like a few days and if shes still the same-- get a new gf
l8er
2007-02-17 04:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by SparklinSerena♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she does not find you very attractive to her. Since she broke up with you once, there must be something about you that bothers her. Talk with her and find out what she thinks of you.
2007-02-17 04:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl has absolutely NO IDEA what she wants in the relationship...i think you should tell her that your relationship is a one way street right now and if she doesn't step up her act you're out
hope i helped =]
2007-02-17 04:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by floydygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋