I have been dating this girl for about two years she for the past few months has had extreem ups and downs in her mood. The last time she was in the mood for sex has 8 months ago im not sure if she is cheating or what but I just dont feel as happy anymore. I love her to death but im 21 and I want to live life to the fullest, but I have invested two years of my life with her and just dont want to "throw that away" I have a girl at my work that I believe wants me and she is very cool to talk to ect. I just dont know what to do everytime I talk to my girlfriend about this she gets upset or makes a excuse or trys and use it against me. Help!! Thanks!
2007-02-17 04:08:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didn't even bother reading the paragraph...NO! NEVER EVER!
Well, now that i read the question...still NO. talk to her about it, and if needs must break up with her. cheating wont help. you two will still split up and the girl @ work wont have respect for you anymore. break up and go out...but DONT CHEAT!
2007-02-17 04:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating would be the scoundrel's way out. Do not do this unless you would like to have that stigma with you for a very long time. Nothing ever justifies cheating on your significant other, even lack of a sex life. If your girlfriend is becoming upset when you mention this subject to her, perhaps you are not approaching it in the right way. Don't accuse her. There might be something wrong on a deeper level, and cheating on her will only make your problems worse. Also, if she's having ups and downs in moods, you should honestly be more sensitive instead of thinking of sex.
2007-02-17 12:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't cheat. If you need a break from your current relationship, then break it off and see other people. Yes, it will hurt your current girlfriend but she will respect you in the long run. Also, if you have these feelings and want to "live life to the fullest" maybe you need to see other women for new experiences. If it was meant to be with your girlfriend, you two will be together again. Good luck.
2007-02-17 12:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat. You will be the one who carries the guilt forever. Sounds like you are pretty solid and there is no point in you putting yourself into a situation that will haunt you for life. If you cheat, then decide to let go of your present relationship, you will do it over and over whenever you aren't happy with someone. I think you need to get out on your own and go back to dating the girl you are with. If she doesn't have any spark left for you, then atleast you will get used to not being with her all the time and the break up will be easier for you to take.
2007-02-17 12:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen you are a young man with your whole life ahead of you. if your unhappy get out now. yeah you have 2 years in this but better lose 2 years then 20 or more. sounds to me your current girlfriend has many issues to deal with and you r looking elsewhere so go and break it off gently and as best you can still be friends if possible but dont cheat. cheating is wrong. your better than that. good luck
2007-02-17 12:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by bubba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big deal you invested time. I invested 8 years in a relationship and broke it off because it just didn't work. You should do the same.
Is it better to cheat and hurt her feeling REALLY bad or just tell her it isn't working and you need to break it off? Why is this so hard for people to understand?
2007-02-17 12:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating isnt the solution to your problem. Its deeper than that. U and your gf need to talk and get things out on the table. She apparently has issues, whether they are directly linked to u, or otherwise.
Talking is the answer to your problem. Discuss the issue in depth, and attempt to resolve it. If a resolution cannot be made, then perhaps its time for the two of you to part ways and start over.
Good luck to u.
2007-02-17 12:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have mixed signals there bud...sort all that out and then go that way. If I were you, I'd lose the 2 year fling that has deadended and start afresh with the new dolly at work. I suspect your 2 yr girl has lost interest....move on.
2007-02-17 12:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat. Its very hurtful to your partner, try breaking up with her but say something like you need your space. And then see if the girl at you work likes you. Or try something else along those lines.
2007-02-17 12:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never cheat,unless you want to be a worthless piece of ****, be honest always the best policy. you have to tell her how you feel(break up) . Better to throw 2 years away than any more.
2007-02-17 12:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋