i have been dating this guy for ayear and 3 months we have no chemistry and im 16 and hes 18 he told me im self centered i have some maturing to do but he says i treated him like dirt in the past and i will never get it what hes saying he told me he cant say he loves me anymore but i still say it he said i used him for money and transportation and it wasnt it so do i give up he doesnt believe me cause he says i wasnt my self i made stories up and he told me we should date other ppl and i cant let him go because i know what did but i always get lippy with him and he does to and he told me that im too lay back and hes loves sports and playing around and i dont he told me i treated him like we were married so is that wronghe said it was and we always got into it we are both geminis that probably explains alot so how can i show him ppl can change or i can change
2007-02-17 03:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by pooh913 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It won't happen that he thinks you will change; you are too young and he is young too and immature and rude and insensitive.
Being from the same Zodiac sign should not be your focus as to think that is why you guys have this relationship.
You need to let him go; you guys are too different and is hard being so young to let go of someone you care for but you need to otherwise he will only hurt you more and make your life hell.
When a guy treats you like that if you stay there they do it more; just give him his space and time; and if he really cares and loves you he will come back to you.
You can talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you want to change so he believes what you are telling him but still; you guys should not stay together for now; do not let him break it; that will make you feel much worse; break it yourself and tell him you guys need time apart; you are willing to change but for now is not a good idea to continue seeing each other or dating.
He will think about it if you end it; he will take you more seriously too.
2007-02-17 04:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your astrological signs has nothing to do with it. Maybe he has a few points. He needs space right now and you need to figure a few things out. He's at the point where the life changes he's about to go through will make it difficult for you both to see eye to eye in life. This might not be the best time for this relationship as far as the age difference.
2007-02-17 03:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go, he's trying to mature and tell you that he's not happy with you any more. You both should go out and and date other ppl and maybe one day you guys can work things out when you have both matured a little more. The truth is you can't prevent hm from leaving, you should be glad that he's telling you and not going behind your back and playing you.
2007-02-17 04:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punctuation much?
This doesn't sound like a great, healthy, mature relationship. You're young, you'll find someone else; there's plenty more fish in the sea; yada yada yada.
2007-02-17 03:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's unhappy its best to break it off because he sound mentally abusive. its hard but it would be for the best
2007-02-17 03:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋