I've been with her for at least 5 years and we are both 24. My girlfriend and I had safe sex 2 months ago, I used a condom properly. She is pregnant now. Her parents doesn't want me dating her anymore. I still very much in love with her. Her parents did allowed me to date her before 2 months ago though. I would never leave her. I would of couse provide money and care for the baby. My girlfriend's parents doesn't want me to date her anymore and plus what am i going to do with the baby once it arrives? The baby is going to destroy my future.
2007-02-17 03:50:38 · 5 answers · asked by Ansem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How dare you!
How can a little baby destroy "YOUR" future when you put your penis in a place it shouldn't have been if you wasn't ready for the commitment? You are selfish and heartless! You are a 24 year old MAN! And you call this girlfriend problems? You are both adults! Go get married and raise your child! You don't need parents permission!
GROW UP!
2007-02-17 04:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well young man, You made the choice to have sex with her, now you have a responsibility to care for her and that child. You should have thought about your future before sex. The girl is grown, her parents no longer should have anything to say. Take of your responsibilities and worry about the future with that child. If you love her that much why not marry her?
2007-02-17 04:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An unexpected baby is obviously not an ideal future in your mind but you will love the baby. It won't destroy you future, trust me it won't seem so bad in a few months you just have to get used to the idea. And plus you love her, you'll be fine.
2007-02-17 03:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand why her parents are mad at you its not like you two are 16 or still in high school. I mean if you really love her tell that to her parents. Maybe even later on down the road you will ask for her hand in marriage.
Good Luck
2007-02-17 03:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep dating her. you're 24, her parents have no say over her life. if you love her deeply like you say you do (and i belive you, and would do the same) then stay with her. she needs you, and your baby needs you. really, not to be rude, but i say screw her parents and keep dating her, it's not their choice now.
2007-02-17 04:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋