This is not a serious relationship. On Valentines day I gave him chocolate, and I wasn't expecting anything after only a week of dating. A Rolex??? I thought he was totally joking when he said he wanted to get me one!!!! My dad says I should give it back, I don't know what to do. It's a bit much!!! I want him to know that I can't give him anything that big!!! I don't want to seem like a golddigger either because I really didn't expect this when I started to like him!!
2007-02-17 03:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm almost 100% sure it's real and almost 100% sure it wasn't stolen, and the biggest thing is, this is a middle school relationship, 8th grade!!!!
2007-02-17 04:16:52 · update #1
8th Grade? So this money came from his parents. Your Dad should talk to his dad. Spending serious money on an 8th grade relationship is not right regardless of your feelings, but on top of that you've said it is not serious. The chocolate seemed appropriate.
Your father gives it back to his dad. You can tell your boyfriend that it is your dad's fault so he doesn't blame you. You'll regret it if you keep it, because your boyfriend will hold it over you later, especially if you break up.
2007-02-25 03:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I've been in your shoes before. Whether or not if you keep it know this:
Receiving a gift doesn't make you a gold digger, demanding one does.
You do not have to buy him anything, but it was kind and appropriate of you to get him chocolates.
Though it sounds like this guy is a little eager, if he is a truly quality person, he wouldn't want you to stress out over buying him things or over the thing he bought you.
So, enjoy the gift, girl!
2007-02-17 12:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by cinema.mentus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week does not a Rolex make....
Give it back, unless he in an oil shiek.
Where can the relationship go from here?
2007-02-17 11:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it back. It sounds like he's trying to buy you. If you accept the Rolex (fake or not) he may expect SOMETHING in return from you . If you know what I mean (SEX). It's just not right don't do it. Listen to your dad if listen to me. Take care of your self.
2007-02-17 11:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by cy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you appreciate his generosity, but its a little too much for only dating for a week. Tell him you like him for him not the expensive items, and material items don't control you. And you look forward to dating him because you really like him.
2007-02-17 11:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first make sure it's real and if it is take it back to pawn shop before they report it stolen
2007-02-17 11:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he won't be bothered by what you give him, all he wants is your love.
2007-02-17 11:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by m h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not real..... if it is he has serious problems,, or you are real, real, real ,real real, pretty! lol
Rolex can cost $4,000 to $100,000 and then some
2007-02-17 11:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by tapc101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋