Well, I know this guy who lives at the end of the world... Yes, I met him on internet but I DO trust him. We both love each other and decided to "be together" yet not be exclusive. Since, for multiple reasons that I won't dwell on, we can't meet, we decided to date other people, who obviously understand that it's just dating - no relationships - yet wait for us to be able to meet to be together. This isn't the type of "puppy love" and it's not because we're desperate. Tell me what you think about this...
2007-02-17 03:32:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, I'd either meet him now or forget him completely
2007-02-17 03:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by deana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been here before and is really hard to keep your promises if you don't see him so often specially you never meet this guy is hard to trust him. is better you keep your friendhip first till you meet each other then you decide what you see and what you feel about him. yes it just only a puppy love yet coz you still not sure that he is the one for you and you will get atttracted to someone comes to you easily untill when you turn the right age then you will know how serious having a relationship with someone and this is not a joke being inlove with someone. the important for long distance realationship is to have a " trust and communication" without this two things realtionship won't work out so becareful when you love someone away from you, just be patient. good luck
2007-02-17 11:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by luvu4ever14344 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love a guy you've never met???? Get real Darlin. Meet real people you can touch and see and talk to here and now in the real world. Get a life ! A REAL life not some electronic over the Internet cable across the world virtual love life. This Internet is great for information and exploring and learning. You can't make love to a computer.
2007-02-17 11:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got myself into a similar situation a couple years back. I think its fine. Long distance relationships can work when there's honesty, trust and commitment. It does get really really expensive though. You guys really need to outline what can and cannot be done when the other person isnt there. You need to find a way to speak every single day. This will keep you from growing apart. Also, try not to go to bed without resolving issues that have caused tension during the day. Dont try to fix everything at once, but dont go to bed angry. Good luck. It's been 4 years for me.
2007-02-17 11:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by helplessromatic2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me get this straight......you met this guy on the internet who lives at the end of the world, but you LOVE him, yet have never met him, and you both have said to see other people but the other people know it's not "dating"-no relationships but to wait till you can meet each other....
Um .........I would suggest you FORGET about this guy on the internet who you have no clue if he's for real or not..meaning..is he actually who he says he is. It sounds very fishy to me and I feel you're wasting your time/life to wait to meet him* You need to find someone to spend time with daily, who you can talk on the phone with , go out with...enjoy life with , instead of sitting at home waiting for the time to come where you can finally meet. DOn't be silly* You're setting yourself up for quite the Heartache*
2007-02-17 11:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its an honest healthy response. You aren't depriving each other of a relationship until you meet but you understand that your relationships won't be long term. I hope you guys will eventually get to meet soon and have a good life together.
2007-02-17 11:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by broadwaynights87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart!
Love will find a way for you to meet someday. In the mean time, just keep trying to be the best person can you be. Really become happy with yourself, and that will make your relationship even better when you do meet.
2007-02-17 12:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by bethann1017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumb. I am dating someone online, but we are definitely exclusive with each other. You can't date other people and say no relationships. If you loved him, the thought of dating other people would be ridiculous to you.
2007-02-17 11:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Felicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id prob do the same thing as you. if you guys do meet, then you can take it from there..there is no point in being "committed" to someone when you have no clue if he is doing the same! i was in the same boat as you, but the guy lived near me. he kept saying how im his "gf" but we never met...then i found out he got married and had a wife...imagine that!! good luck!
2007-02-17 11:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love challenges it all ... no matter the distance. Go for it if you both have a sincere feelings and equivalent thoughts.
Best Wishes.
2007-02-17 11:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋