We've been together for over 2 years already. I propose to her a week ago and she rejected my proposal. I am really really depressed. She is my love of my life. Should I continue dating her after being rejected of marriage? Was she not ready? What do you think?
2007-02-17 03:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by Raymond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her why she said no. She may not be ready.
I think 2 years is too soon.
But i have a friend who is getting married after 2 1/2 years.
I also have a couple that has dated 10 years and they got married last year. He gave her several rings and she always said no.
Give it time. And also see what exactly she wants.
2007-02-17 03:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did she reject you? That is the first thing you should ask yourself. Other than that, if you are absolutely sure that she is the one that will make you feel happy even when you don't want to be, why are you asking this question? If you are so deeply in love with her, of course you continue to see her! Marriage is a pretty big commitement, and two years isn't quite long enough. She probably wasn't ready, and can you blame her? Work in steps! Ask her to move in (not just now, of course, wait a while); ask her if she wants to get a dog or something! Work patiently, even better ask her at what pace she wants to move, and ask her if you're both heading in the same direction. That's all I have to say, so I hope it helps!
2007-02-17 03:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you took a step of proposal, it is your right to know the reasons of being rejected. Ask her and if you like to be her friend afterwards it is not humiliating ... you should have the spirit!
Good luck.
2007-02-17 03:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she maybe not ready give her some space and time and don't bother her about it that will get annoying and she will probably dump you if you keep bothering her about it you can still go out with her but wait until she really is ready for a marriage.you never know she could say yes the next time and y'all could start a family.but that's just my guess
2007-02-17 03:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by BRITTNEY C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she said no. She probably wasn't ready. You just need to give it more time.
2007-02-17 03:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Loaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that she isn't ready yet.... and yes inspite of it, continue dating.. you also need to know and respect her decision... take time ... there might be reasons as to why she has done so...
2007-02-17 03:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋