Good morning all my girlfriend broke up with me for a friend she has been talking to for three year yes i cried when she left because it hurt. she say she still love and i still want her she say but she lost feeling for me im just a friend so now im her bestfriend i want to know what can do to get those feelings back that i feel for her or do i just need to be her friend.
2007-02-17 03:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i guess its best for u to just be friends. its better to be there as a friend than being nothing in her life.
2007-02-17 03:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by drtmvs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be best friends with someone who broke your heart? Do you really want to sit around and discuss the intimate details of her new relationships with her? Is this the basis of a friendship? The friendship she has just proposed to you is a way that she can slowly get you out of her life without acknowledging the guilt that she has for ending the relationship. It is a crappy thing to do to someone but it works on shows like Sex and The City and some people think that is real. The better thing to do for you is to find other friends to talk to and let her do her thing sparing you the haunnting details.
2007-02-17 11:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has lost all feelings for u and u still love her very much, i guess it is better to remain as her best friend than nothing at all. But if it really hurts u very much, then maybe it is good to have a clean break with her.
2007-02-17 11:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Starmu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave it alone. If you are meant to be friends you will be. Otherwise she is stringing you along as plan B. I am sure she cares about you. But you are not letting her go.
She may realize you were a good guy, after you start dating and you may even find an even better girl.
Dont stress it. Go on and LIVE.
2007-02-17 11:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of almost 2 years is also my best friend....I remember the saying goes that you are supposed to marry your best friend.
2007-02-17 11:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Racin Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a best friend because u get an endless supply of hugz
2007-02-17 11:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her completely an move on.
You'll only get hurt if you don't.
2007-02-17 11:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both in the same time
2007-02-17 11:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look start being her best friend maybe she will leave her bf for her best friend again
2007-02-17 11:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she sounds like a j@ckass, you find someone who is good
2007-02-17 11:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋