If all of your guy friends kept on talking about how Gorgeous your friend is and how they want to be her man?
Would you be jealous of your friend? Or would you just be happy that all the guys like her?
2007-02-17 03:20:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they are not your boyfriends so why are you worrying about it....
2007-02-17 03:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a natural thing with women. Oh yes, I would get jealous and pretty tired of hearing that my friend is the hot one. But even though she is more attractive, doesn't mean that someone won't have eyes only for the less attractive woman. Some men out there want more than just looks.
The less attractive woman might be a better cook and house keeper and might be more fun to hang out with without worrying about getting her hair messed up or cracking a nail. There are beautiful women who are nice but some just don't have what a man really needs.
2007-02-17 11:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably be jealous. I hate it when people talk like that right it front of me. I guess it's because I have never been in a relationship though. Just because I am jealous doesn't mean you should be. Be happy for her even if it does start to get anoying.
2007-02-17 11:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Loaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get jealous of people. They are who they are...I am who I am. The " shell " (how a person looks) is simply the ' shell '. . . it's what a person is about within that is of importance.
Looks, money, travel, types of cars, professions, etc. . . . How is your own individual heart, humor, soul within you ? How is your friends ? I'm sure you are fine as you are...she is fine as she is . . . I really don't understand the trait of jealously...That may sound odd...yet, I really don't understand it.
As far as the looks or money issues goes . . . That may be fine to look at or be around...but, eventually the desire would be to know that person's core of being in friendship, trust, heart, humor, do they encourage you on in your life . . . The face (looks) of a person is not going to do that, nor is the money...only what is within. Some are attracted to your friend...be glad for her and all the while shining the beautiful uniqueness of who you yourself is also.
2007-02-17 11:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'd be happy but at the same time jealous..but its not good to be jealous..because what does it do? it seriously does not help wit anything. so yea. just be happy and wait for the right guy at the right time
2007-02-17 11:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally i would be jelouse it happened to me and it still does but you have to learn how to deal with it. now everyone is going to like you and not everyone is going to like your best friend its just people have different taste and you never know your firned could be jelouse of you. talk to your friends about how you feel about her see how she feels about you. by bein jelouse you are bringing your self down so if your friends tell you in your face how much they want her just ignore it or just go with the flow be like what you want me to hook you up sometimes boys get intemedate if they dont really like her just stay cool be your self its better for one guy to truelly like you then for many guys to think your just cute or hot .
2007-02-17 11:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by sugeiry b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be they are complimenting you on your taste - or perhaps trying to tell you that you should be more than just a friend....
2007-02-17 11:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....I know the feeling.....it's hard, but you have to remember, it isn't her fault so don't take it out on her!!! But maybe you should tell her how you feel so she knows what is going on; that's what best friends are for!!!! ;D
2007-02-17 11:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Janae-nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be happy. because there could be guys out there you havent met yet who will think your pretty too.
2007-02-17 11:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by addie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy.
if she is really your friend you'd be happy for her.
dont be petty.
2007-02-17 11:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if i dont get at least one lol
2007-02-17 11:23:20 · answer #11 · answered by Maniaka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋