ok im a single mother and have been with my boyfriend for a while now, the problem is he has a record and bad credit which makes it hard to find a job besides ones that just pay cash. i really love him and i want to get married but im scared that because of his back ground we will go through lots of problems when it comes to buying a house or insurence. i dont know if its like that for sure but i would like your guys opinions on what you think or know that could help me. and another problem if i were to get married i wouldnt get the benifits of being a single mother, like daycare assistance and college tuition. please help me figure out all of this...
2007-02-17 03:17:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should ask yourself first that do you love him enough to get along with his problems or not. I believe that love is about loving someones good things and bad things as well.
Having said this do not overlook the financial aspects because you have now responsability of your kids as well. Sit togather with this guy and plan for future. Say yes to marriage only if you are sure you two can come up with a solution in a short time.
good luck
2007-02-17 03:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes by all means get married but not to this guy. if he can't get a job you will burn yourself out trying to support him and your children.
2007-02-17 03:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋