does marriage ruin love and friendship??
2007-02-17 03:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by swapnil s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When in a free relationship, you don't worry about classifications and such. You just live life with the person whom you choose. You feel free and more at comfort when it comes down to it.
The moment when the marriage carpet rolls in, its a completely different feel. To be technically someone's possession can bring a big downer down to the relationship.
Personally speaking, the idea of marriage is nice but it gives you the impression of being trapped. Plus sinking 10 000$ for a ceremony cuts deep into the pockets. I'd just like to live my life with my love without worry of this. She is my only one without the legal rope.
cheers
2007-02-17 03:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by H Vice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship + love = a wonderful marriage.
2007-02-17 11:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when your in a relationship you really need to know someone before you commit yourself to marriage. Marriage can be a difficult step when your not ready, but without love and friendship you cannot have a successful marriage, so I would say..No it's not better than a marriage, IT MAKES A MARRIAGE!
2007-02-17 11:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by HALOGURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage doesnt ruin anything. People ruin marriages. You get out of relationships what you put into relationships and thats rather its a friendship or marriage.
2007-02-17 11:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is mostly just a symbol. As such, love and friendship certainly transcend marriage. However I wouldn't go so far as to say that marriage specifically ruins love and/or friendship.
2007-02-17 11:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion YES! And in my opinion NO, marriage itself does not ruin love and friendship, however not being prepared or financially secure before the vows are sworn will lead to the ruin of love and friendship...
2007-02-17 11:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is worse than a marriage without friendship and love. A lot of people will badmouth marriage because they really do not understand why it exists. It is a lot more than jsut a piece of paper.
2007-02-17 11:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is a rite in which you publically and legally accept your responsibilities towards your partner. We are not as much commited in our love and friendship because we wanna run away from our responsibilities. We just wanna have relationships so that we can enjoy. That is why most of such relationships have bad endings...
So if you are still afraid of your responsibilites, nothing is good. Else marraige is the best.
:-)
2007-02-17 12:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship & love is the BEST. marriage is just better i guess.
2007-02-18 14:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have marriage without friendship and love. That is what it's based on... so nope.
2007-02-17 11:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋