Heya everyone I would really apreciate help with this question. I was with this guy for 3 months n everything was goin great, we loved each other, then suddenly we started arguing about silly things, and he stopped meeting up with me, sayin he needed his space. He didnt call me or answer my texts like he used to. Then 1 day he said to me, I dont know if I love you anymore. It really hurt me and he said yesterday that he still feels something for me, but what? why would a guy do something like that? He doesnt want to see you, hear from you, speak to you.. Thing is I know the right thing to do would be forget him, but i love him so much
2007-02-17 03:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by Girly Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it is me who starts the arguments. But when i ask him to talk to me about all this he says: I dnt want to meet up today because I want to avoid any arguments.
2007-02-17 03:13:24 · update #1
Let him go.. Once you hear the "I need my space", count it as the kiss of death to your relationship.
2007-02-17 03:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically u need to find out from the guy why he dosen't want to return any of ur calls or messages. basically u need to know why he has changed. If u do know maybe u both can sit down and talk about it try to sort it out!!! And don't give up on the relationship!!!
U also said u both argue about silly things, I want know if u usually start the argument most of the time, or he does?
2007-02-17 11:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Faves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is not enough time to know complete love. It's only time for a mutual physical attraction. Get over it and move on. If it was love, it will be back. Besides, Guys are foolish. Most believe a sexual attraction is love. It's not. Love is a beautiful dream that most men will never experience.You do know the right thing to do. "Git er done"! Move on.
Charlie H.
2007-02-17 11:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by "El Padrino" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might truely need space. the thing is you guys were only dating for 3 months. most guys are still in that "happy state" when they are with someone in the beginning. or maybe your relationship( like everyone elses) is trying to grow. if he doesnt love you then let him go. if he does love you, you need to decide if he is worth the pain. guys say they need space to "make sure the girl they are with is the one they want". sounds mean but its the truth. if you two get back together and he breaks up with you again just let him go!
2007-02-17 11:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try moving on. it sounds like he may be more trouble than hes worth. if you are in pain more often than love, then it is not a good sign but if you absolutely feel you cannot live without him, simply try to reason with him. tell him how you feel and make him make you understand how he feels. maybe he just has a hard time admitting how deeply he cares for you. you'll never know unless you really talk things out.
good luck!
2007-02-17 11:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by snowbunny83090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be downright dumb or he could be compassionate enough to not want to make your life hell in the future i mean think about it he maybe thinking of you while he's acting like this, maybe he's not sure of his emotions and feels he doesn't want to mess with you, i don't really know either of you so unknown.
2007-02-17 11:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever herd the term (piece of ***?)lose the loser before you get hurt
2007-02-17 11:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't hav the feelingz ne more..move on..forget him..trust me u can find a better person who won't ignore u..
2007-02-17 11:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by kitXcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That keeps my wife on her toes.
2007-02-17 11:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋