How do you date if youve never dated and your mom doesnt let out of the house afraid that your gonna be kidnapped!Ive consestantly fighting with her to me go were iwanna go!I cant even walk to my cousins house and its two streets away!!
So how do you date if you cant get out of the house unless your going to school?
2007-02-17 02:34:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm "too young to date"(12 years(w/e), but I still flirt, dance, and do that dating stuff without my parents knowing. You can ask someone to sit by you at lunch, or to go to the school dance. Hope I helped!!
2007-02-17 02:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by xEmoxKidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under 17, I don't blame your mother.
There are too many kidnappers, rappists, weirdos out there. Having your mom drive you to places is not a bad deal at all. I don't let my son who is 14 out of my sight. I trust him, but I don't trust the weirdos out there, and I definitely don't trust the boys his age.
So in conclusion, it's not that your mother wants to suffocate you or that she doesn't trust you. It's just that she doesn't trust the people out there, and she wants to watch you grow up and become a beautiful bride to some nice young man, and have a beautiful family of your own. All of this can be taken away from you at any given minute, if a stranger was to have a chance to hurt/harm you in any ways.
Do you see your mom's love for you now?
Go and give her a hug and tell her you do see her side of it.
But it doesn't hurt if she drives you to the movies with your friends meeting you there.
2007-02-17 02:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your mother that your responsibe and that your not going to be alone. Bring up the saftey in number speech. If she'll allow you to date, why wouldn't she let you GO anywhere. She seems to be tricking you, allowing you one thing when you really need two.
2007-02-17 02:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by krissrox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont. its your parents decision. Ask them if its ok to go out with them. Yes, embarassing but if your parents get to know him then mabey, MABEY, they will let you go out. I had to make a sacrifice and do this same thing before and it turned out great!
2007-02-17 02:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋