2007-02-17 02:34:45 · 7 answers · asked by Hunter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Building a relationship isn't about who makes more than the other. Certainly it is a subject that will have to be dealt with, but why should she reveal it, she is looking for either a good time in which case it isn't a player, or she's looking for a deep, lasting relationship in which case this "secret" might shed doubts on the intentions of her BF.
2007-02-17 02:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say from experience, don't flaunt it about.
A man (the right kind) will be attracted to you by the way you dress, and how you act. How you take care of yourself will attract men.
Do not flaunt your income or let him know you are living comfortable.
1. That gives him no reason to give you anything, he may feel like you won't appreciate it or its not up to your standards.
2. I have dated 2 users. Why should they do all the hard work when you will? One guy still owes me more than $1500, and the other guy thought I was a prize and I made 3 times as much as him.
This new guy I am dating, social standard, makes more money than I, but we have fun together. He does not ask me for nothing, I ask him for nothing. I am sure he would help me though if I needed it.
My previous relationship of 6 years, I helped my bf out whenever he needed because I loved him. That put me in a bind because I didn't have the money for things I needed. When I asked him to repay or to help, he was like do what? dont you have money?
Keep it to yourself. It is no ones business.
Remember, some people are taught and raised to either marry for money or for love.
True Love is a hard hard thing to get. And some people give up on finding it.
2007-02-17 02:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is proud of her accomplishments, there's no reason for her to hide it. Of course, it's not right for anyone to brag, but there's no virtue in lying about it if the guy asks. Which would be an incredibly crass thing to do.
2007-02-17 12:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it comes up, talk about it. Why is it a big deal? It shouldn't be. If the guy has pride issues about it, he can get over them.
2007-02-17 02:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are humans too and we have feelings,if there's one thing I hate is a liar or people who keeps secrets from me,
2007-02-17 04:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would want us to tell you !!
2007-02-17 02:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you do if shoe was on other foot?
2007-02-17 02:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋