so... i had this Guy friend, i known him sinc elast summer. we went on a date 1 time. we hang out a few times & that was all.We tried a few time sto hang out again,but he always pushed me away. when i ahd some feelinsg for him he kept pushing me away,kept syaing im 2 good for him etc.well, we agree to stay friends and only friends.when it came to other guys in my life.he got jealous etc. well,a few days ago he told me how he felt about me as he has feelinsg for me & then on the phone he got to sexual agressiveness & over controling as if he was my bf. i felt so uncomfortable.he wanted to kno my feelings towards him.so i told him id let him know ina couple days so i wrote him.a email cuz i didnt wanna call him cuz i knew he was busy.i told him ina nice way how i felt,after i sent it i forgot and it was valentines day :( i felt bad.i like him as a friend etc.he delted me off of myspace & wont talk to me on the phone or on messenger..why wont he talk to me etc?
2007-02-17 02:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i only like him as a friend for now and i miss having him as a friend.. :(
2007-02-17 02:37:20 · update #1
Its a power thing; he doesn't really have much affection for you but enjoys feeling that you have the hots for him, it flatters his ego. To my shame I was no better than that myself for a while but eventually I grew up. Trust me, you dont need someone like that in your life, not until he matures a lot anyway!. Hope you find a guy who likes you for what you are; good luck.
2007-02-17 02:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by cuddlyclaud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well saying that you'll tell him in a few days, is playing a mind game w/ him, if you were trying to be cute, you should have just said maybe. It seems like he's possessive, and if you really liked someone, you would tell them if they wanted to know how you felt about them. Not lead him on, its just an immature thing to do.
2007-02-17 02:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you just shot him down (in his mind). It sounds that it took him a long time to open up and when he did, he didn't get the results he expected. You have to give him some time to gather his thoughts. Let's see what plays out. If you keep bothering him, he will think you are trying to play with his feelings.
Good luck
2007-02-17 02:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you two are teens. It sounds like he has low self esteem and not much experience with women, which all can change. If you are older, then it sounds the same except he may have deeper psychological problems. He won't talk to you because he is hurt.
2007-02-17 02:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by fugere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but my son says that when guys say, "Your too good for me" or "why do you put up with me" It's their way of releasing their guilt because they really do NOT want to be in the relationship but aren't mature enough to say it how it is.as far as him using you with phone sex.. He was horney and "in the momment" Dump the loser and move on.
2007-02-17 02:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by themamabehr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on gal no time to hanging round with him
2007-02-17 02:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds a jerk im sorry --- forget about him --- there will be someone who does care for you and wont play games with you
2007-02-17 02:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're so confusing...would be my guess. Plus you can't spell that well.
2007-02-17 02:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ***. Move on!
2007-02-17 02:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋