HELP ME i'm 12?

Question

ok theres thease girls at school who bugg me and my friends about being virgins they are all pregnet (5 of them) and tell us that if we don't become pregnet by march they will kill us.I already said i won't become pregnet untill i'm married but some of my friends are thinking about it
i already told my parents they said they will check into it
BUT I NEED HEL P WHAT CAN I DO

this quistion is 4 real some of my other quistions i asked because they happen to my friends but please answer me this is true

Answer 1

Good on you for standing up for yourself! That's a tough decision you've made but a very honerable one. And really, I think the best one. There's nothing greater that you can give your husband, your partner for life, your love, than your virginity. It is something so special that you will share together and it creates a bond that is so strong.

Of course, not everyone is even fertile at 12 so even if you wanted to follow what these girls are saying, it may not be physically possible for you. Of course, they are just threatening (saying really STUPID stuff) but it's a worry nonetheless. You did the right thing telling your parents about it. If you're still worried, mention it to them again and tell them not just what is happening, but also, how you really feel (scared, worried, angry etc) about it.

Also, tell the teachers because they should be providing a safe and happy learning environment for you and they can't do that if they don't know there is all this stuff going on.

GO GIRL and GOD BLESS YOU

Answer 2

These girls will feel differently once they have the responsibility of raising the children they are pregnant with when the babies are born. Having a baby is VERY hard work. They need constant attention while being cared for. My daughter is almost 10 months old and I also have two teenagers 13 and 15. Babies need fed every 2-4 hours when born by breast or bottle. Bottle feeding means making the bottles correctly with a type of formula your baby can eat, keeping the baby from getting to much air when feeding, properly cleaning the bottles, dragging bottles with you when you go away and much more. Nursing a baby can be difficult. They don't latch on correctly or don't get enough milk when they nurse. Nipples become very sore when they don't suck correctly. When a mom goes away it can be difficult to find somewhere comfortable to nurse. A young girl who isn't fully developed in the breasts may not be able to nurse at all.
Babies are messy. They poop and pee constantly. They throw-up regularly. They wake up at all hours screaming, sometimes for no apparent reason. At times I feel like screaming with my baby but that would only scare her and make things worse. At you and these girls ages you are not equipped for the stress emotionally and physically that comes with having a child. Not to mention none of you are financially secure to pay for all the things needed for a child for the next 18 years. I commend you and your friends on waiting to lose your virginity. I waited until I was 18 and to be honest, I wish I had waited a little longer. You have plenty of time to do adult things when you are an adult. Enjoy being a teen. I also strongly suggest going to your school guidence office and reporting these girls that are threatening your lives. You may or may not believe them BUT all threats should be taken seriously. There is to much violence happening at schools these days and if students had reported threats when they first heard them maybe it could have been prevented. I hope what I have written helps you make the right choice and I hope your parents continue to support you. Someday you will be ready for children and you will make a good mommy for a little bundle of joy.

Answer 3

Okay first of all, you're on the right path about telling your parents, I commend you for that. Second, you need to make sure your parents talk to the school if not, then you need to talk to the principal. It's going to be hard, you will get teased and such, but know this, it's going to take you being stronger than them and not allowing yourself to be tempted and forced into doing something you don't want to do. I can't say that their threats are empty, but do take care of yourself. If you don't feel safe and comfortable after they have been talked to and punished, then once again, don't hesitate to let someone know. Many times younger children that are hurt it's because they don't speak up. I'm proud you did. Use the buddy system when walking after school or going to the restroom during lunch. Always helps to have a friend, makes things easier. Always remember that your true friends will stick by your side no matter what. If you need more help or advice, feel free to email me at [e-mail]

Take Care.

Answer 4

You are 12! Don't even think about having a baby before you have the means and education to take care of it. Trust me, I accidentally got pregnant when I was a senior in high school and now almost eight years later I am just beginning to go back to college to finish my degree. Children are great-when you're an adult. Besides you shouldn't let anyone bully you into anything. Tell your parents EVERYTHING and don't be afraid to tell school faculty either. Stay strong in your beliefs and never let anyone force you into anything. Those girls are probably just jealous because they have chosen a long hard path to follow. Stay in school and remember that having children is better when that child has TWO parents that want it.

Answer 5

Those girls sound like complete morons. What you should do is tell your school adminstrator that these girls are harassing your friends and yourself and that you feel threatened. By law they are supposed to take all of the complaints seriously and investigate each one.

Good for you that you dont want to have kids until you are older and ready. They cannot make you do something that they did- and they dang sure will have too much to worry about after the birth of their children to worry about killing someone for actually making the right choice.

If the problems still happen after you have told the school, your parents (or even yourself) may want to purse something with the police. you shouldnt feel threatened at all by anyone for any reason.

As a mom I wouldnt have it- those girls would be sorry they messed with you.

Answer 6

what ever u do dont do it do u want to mess up ur live and become pregnet at age of 12 and not be able to go through ur sweet 16 probaly nto collage and ur senior prom just because u need to watch ur child i dont think so and do u tihnk ur parents wll be to thrilled if u become pregnet think about it when u have kids do u want them to be having sex at age 12 and they wont kill u they will go to jail and get their child token away from them and how would they possibly kill u i mean come on there just trying to scare u

Answer 7

i hope thats a joke.. you're 12!!!! and i am sure that those 5 girls who threatened you are LYING.. i doubt that any of them have even had sex let alone gotten pregnant and i'm pretty positive that most of them probably havent even gotten their periods yet.. so relax, ignore them, and next time they say that to you, tell them you're all set with the babies at age 12 but you appriciate the threats" (being sarcastic of course) that is the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard.. you're 12 not 25.. you aren't even close you are still a child.. why would you want to be a child having a child? sounds a little MESSED up if you ask me. goodluck hun.

Answer 8

Don't kill yourself over it. You said they are at your school, so i'm guessing their are around 12 years old. There is no way they can take care of that baby. They mite be talking now, but wait it out, they will be the one who endings crying and stuff, and you and your friends will be out doing fun things, while they are at the house watching their babies. You need to talk to your friends about it. Stay a virgin for as long as you want to. There is nothing wrong with it. Because if your under 18 and having sex you are a hoe.

Answer 9

Those girls are idiots. You have the right idea. No one is going to kill you for not being pregnant. BTW, did you let someone at school know about the threat to kill you? Most schools take death threats very seriously.

Answer 10

sweetheart you sound a very mature young lady and your parents must be extremely proud of you.stick to your guns,you are still very young and babies should be something for the future not just now. your silly friends may think getting pregnant but in fact its the opposite.they now have to live with their actions and believe me it wont be easy.if they are pregnant(could just be talk)the partners will be prosecuted as you are all under-age.my daughter is 14 and i would be very sad if she announced she was pregnant.get yourself some new friends. im glad you told your parents they will sort this out for you dont worry. take care. xx