dont enjoy sex with only one guy?

Question

I recently encountered my first 3some a few weeks ago with 2 guys. Now I dont enjoy myself unless there atleast 2 guys. I have a pretty sexual life and in the past few weeks have had 5 3somes and 4somes (all guys) and thats the only way I can even get an orgasm now. any tricks you guys no of so I can be satisfied with just one lover? Not everyone I encounter will be into this sort of activity and I dont want my friends to think Im a bad person.... help, I just want to be normal

Answer 1

It sounds like you have serious self-esteem issues to need and desire attention from many different men and likely need professional help to help you sort out why you do what you do and why you can only achieve an orgasm with numerous partners. (Did you father abandon or abuse you physically and/or emotionally?)

Not what you want to hear, but if you continue in this behavior, you will be ostracized from the mainstream and no decent fella will want to hook up with because they see you as "used" and "damaged" goods.

Even worse, if you are not using proper protection, you could get a veneral disease or even AIDS.

Answer 2

Your first mistake is believing that sex is only fun if orgasm is achieved. While I am lucky enough to have a partner who doesn't end sex until we're both satisfied, I would still love sex if I wasn't having one. Yes, it is easier for men to orgasm, but like someone else said- ours are more intense. If you're not being satisfied, go find a real man who will take the time to get you off. And make no mistake, women enjoy sex just as much and as often as men. Men are just more aggressive about seeking sex, and tend to think about it more. Women are also just as capable of having sex "like a man" meaning without feeling involved.

Answer 3

I am so sorry to hear what your dealing with. Were you perhaps, exposed to pornography at a very young age or worse? This is a very sensitive topic and a very deep rooted problem you have. No, this kind of behavior really isn't normal. Men with fantasies will tell you it is but there's an ugly truth behind it.
There are a lot of women who turned out like this and most of them did not have good fathers, some had no father at all or was neglected or molested.
If you really want help, this is going to require making some phone calls and arrangements to see what's happening inside your deep rooted issue. Counseling is important for this.
And don't listen to the ones who called you a slut. They are quick to judge without looking at their own flaws.

Answer 4

There is nothing abnormal about your situation. Everyone tries to put everyone in a box, but you have to do what is right for you. If that is what you like in your bedroom, then so be it. You have to make sure that your significant other is okay with that. Communication is the key and be open and honest about how you feel. Be yourself and have fun.

p.s. If you don't want your "friends" to find out about your taste, find a swing club to join. Then you can go off on your own abd handle your business and getting the same results in the privacy of your own.

Answer 5

Read the Book of Proverbs in the Bible (Bible.com). It won't matter if you believe in God or not, but you will be able to understand why you are so depraved, and what the ultimate end will become of you.

Answer 6

that habit become if it's over 20 days so try to use to satisfy with only one and u can do it... u can make it... if u believe that the orgasm become only with one..

Answer 7

Bicycle.

Answer 8

I guess you just find it exciting. You probably won't be satisfied with 1

Answer 9

Wow that is a lot!You are not afraid that you will catch some kind of cooties?

Answer 10

They have names for women like you...