well in november i really liked my best friend(gal) and i had a feeling she liked me back but i didnt do anything but now recently my best friend(gal) and my other best friend(guy) have told each other they like one another... They both plan to keep everything on the dl im the only one that knows so they wont break up anytime soon so that just prolongs my wait for her.... wat if they never break up wat will i do.... the girl says nothing will change but i fear we wont spend as much time as we did.... my friend(Guy) asked me before tho if i liked her i wud tell him i didnt i dunno y i did that i feel so stupid now.... wat do i do now... THis puts me in an uncomfortable spot. I do not know what to do... Should I tell my best friend how i feel about her.... but then how will my best friend (guy) feel abt this.... i dunno if ill ever find a girl that made me feel good like she did.... i love her off... is it to late to tell her how i feel now that there sort of together now?i am in grade11
2007-02-17 02:17:58 · 4 answers · asked by richardo j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you had your chance and you blew it. You're probably better off as best friends and you might have prevented a mishap in your relationship w/ her. You can't say anything now, that will only make the situation worse for everyone, just suck it up and realize girls are a dime a dozen. You'll realize more when you graduate and notice life more outside of High School.
2007-02-17 02:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is me again.... I'm not being a hater because he didn't ask her out she liked him and she told him how she felt... he couldn't say no... so he says yes... but now he actually does like her... i just don't know if i can be around them tho wen they keep flirting with each other.... I'm not sure if they'll break up because relationships at my school kinda go on forever. one of my friend has been with his girl from 2 and a half years the other one 20 months and another one for 2 and a half. these are my close friends too thats y i have a feeling my best friends' relationship will also last a while.... but i REALLY like her tho... do u think its possible for me to see those two every day and still wait it out? because i know shes the only girl that i can possibly like right now... I am too afraid to tell one of them in fear of losing my friendship with one. me and boy have been friends since like 3 years old and now were 16.... im not sure how hed feel if i tell him i like the girl that he also likes... and the girl likes him back.... how would you react.... if u were in his shoes and i told u i liked the girl... nooo lolll i REALLY like her tho... more than my friend does... im suree of that... they told each other yesterday they like each other... i was planning to tell her i liked her at school monday... but she told my friend she liked him before i could tell her... im sure she liked me too tho
2007-02-17 10:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by mejec01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there too buddy. Getting together with your best friend is tear-filled and difficult. Considering your actually friends with this guy, you want to be careful so that you don't mess up any friendships here. You may want to wait until they break up to confess your feelings. Doing so prematurely could screw up your friendships with both her and him. There will be a time when it seems right to tell her, but you've got to watch it for it and not mess things up (like I did).
2007-02-17 10:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have talked to her when you guys liked each other now that you still do.talk to her about the way you feel and see what she says but dont be negative cause you never know if its just something going around and she likes you not him or she might like you and him
2007-02-17 10:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋