Would you go out with a guy who didnt have a job for 4 years?

Question

No Job?

No, hes just 'lazy' or has bad luck. He says he'll get a job though.

Answer 1

Why invite a lounge lizard into your life who as a "sitter" will only judge what you do while he does zilch? I know lots of women who got involved with guys like that, some of them even work now and then, they like to control everything and are good at it. The women eventually wise up and throw the bums out. No, don't get involved. Get a kitten or puppy is you want good company.

Answer 2

Why didn't he have a job? Was it because he was going to school? Does he have a criminal record and can't get a good background check? Is he applying to become a nuclear physicist and only has a GED? Get real need more information man.

Answer 3

just going out for a friendly or brotherly date is fun. Maybe his being unemployed wouldn't matter but I wouldn't make the relationship deep, I'd give myself no sign for falling because with that, his being unemployed would always matter.

Answer 4

No, but that's just because I like a guy who is secure financially.

Answer 5

no , because I would see him as down on his luck and I would not want someone like that around me.

Answer 6

No, you will support him from now til the end of time. Don't do it. Ask yourself, Why should I?

Answer 7

i would not because what the point to earn job myself?

Answer 8

nope not if you value yourself - he'll be constantly relying on you financially

Answer 9

no, because I'm not gay