I have a boyfriend and I still think about my ex. Is there something wrong with me. I dont want to think about him but he will just pop into my head. Its not like I think about him 24/7 but at least once a day. What can I do to get him out of my head/life? And is there something wrong with me to still be thinking about my ex?
2007-02-17 01:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There isnt anthing wrong with THINKING of your ex. Now if its excessive then yea, its wrong(but you said it wasnt). Depending on how long you were with your ex it may take months to a year. It also depends how long ago you broke up...if it was recent then you shouldve gave it a little more time before dating...if wasnt recent then you should accept the fact that you still think about em and it may make it easier to let go...enjoy your boyfriend:)
2007-02-17 02:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Audi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be quite honest, there is nothing wrong with you thinking about your ex. I have been married twice and going through my second divorce and I have a b/f. I talk about my first husband all the time. He was my first true love. We would still be together now had I not acted like a complete jerk when he tried to help me with my drug problem and I kicked him out.
My ex boyyfriend.....I still think about him. As a matter of fact, I still talk to him on the phone. I am trying to make it where we are friends, but my thoughts linger to another place in our relationship that we had and I think about how it was before I started listening to people who wanted to break us up. Well.......they succeeded. But, in all reality, the past is the past. You can't go back and change it.
You have a b/f now. You have to choose whether or not you want to stay with your current boyfriend or go back to your ex. You said you don't want to think about him. Is it because you feel loyal to your b/f? If that is the case, you can't do that. You have to follow your heart. If you are not truely happy, how do you expect to make someone happy?!
It seems to me that you need to do alot of thinking and decide which one of these guys make you truley happy.
I wish you good luck in everything you decide.
2007-02-17 02:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, it's normal especially if you had a serious or extended relationship. i still think about a guy from 15 years ago, but that doesn't mean i love my husband any less or want that guy back. if you spend enough time with someone, they are difficult to forget.
2007-02-17 01:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by bulloch2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no nothings wrong wit u i hav that problem alot,except being in a relationship,cause at this point iv stopped myself from fallin for pple,but anyways like i think bout my ex who broke up wit me 2 yrs ago,so its perfectly normal,but in time youll stop thinkin bout him,and my advice hang out wit ur bf more it might help
2007-02-17 01:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you just miss your ex or you still like him or you like him better then your boyfriend. nothing wrong with that.
2007-02-17 02:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by notoriousteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, of course there is nothng wrong with it....just don't beg your ex to go back out with you if he has moved on. And don't cheat on your current person either
2007-02-17 01:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats going to happen, maybe you arent really over him or he still has some qualities you like and still care for, its normal, and it IS wrong to be thinking about ur ex bcuz u shuld`ve 4gotten about him.
2007-02-17 01:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to focus on the new, and forget about the old. if you are so serious about the new just resolve it with ex,and move on.
2007-02-17 02:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by ladyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing WRONG with you. It happens.
2007-02-17 01:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋