Ok... I like a gal in my class alot and we have been good friends for the past one year. But she seemed to always treat me like a normal friend and without special feelings. I am a guy who hangs out with girls more than guys in my class and people call me 'gay' or whatever but im not. But this seems to affect my relationship with her as she thinks I have no feelings for her.
And also, my best friend also seemed to like her and she also seem to like him back. And this best friend of mine has like much better qualities than me other than he doesn't know whether he like her or not.
May I sincerely ask for your suggestion in this question please? Its has been trapped in my heart for a long time and after tonight it will be CNY, i hope to solve this asap.
2007-02-17 01:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY LOOK DEAR! I THINK I KNOW YOU..WELL NO MORE EXPLANATIONS..MY NICK IS DIFFERENT BUT IF YOU THINK YOU KNOW ME, JUST LEAVE A MESSAGE.
NOW YOUR QUESTION- EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT THAT GUY, I KNOW WHAT YOU CAN DO..BECAUSE I THINK I AM THAT GIRL..
ANYWAYS, ATTRACTION AND LOVE IS DIFFERENT. YOU ARE ALSO GOOD..OK, YOUR FRIEND MAY BE BETTER, SO WHAT? THE FIRST THING YOU SHOULD SEE IS WHAT THEY ARE ACTUALLY DOING? THEY ARE JUST PASSING SMILES, SAYING "HI!" AND WISHING EACH OTHER..(MAYBE A LITTLE BIT MORE) they are looking for a POTENTIAL relationship..
but maybe the girl has guessed you like her too, but shes not sure, and she wants to make it sure by showing her affection towards another guy..
it does not gets us to any clue whether she likes you or not..
but the best will be first to ask her if she likes your friend (just curious you know) and then toto be cool about yourself, don't PROPOSE her, just ask her out..if she is cool (ok, you don't think so, you think she would make a big issue but girls are cool.) she would say a polite "no" and it will not affect your friendship. Better still if she says yes...
BELIEVE me...(what a coincidence!!!)
if i guess more, you had left enough hints for her to make a rough guess..right?
2007-02-17 02:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey there is only two things to do and that is to sit her down and tell her how you feel and then let her decide or keep you mouth shut till you see what happens with her and your best friend.If they are in a relationship then I would wait to see what happens but if they aren't I would tell her.You don't know if you don't try.But be prepared that she may not feel the same way and if so you have to find a way to move past her.I know this is not the easy answer you were wanting but matters of the heart are not easy problems with easy solutions.Good Luck!!!!!
2007-02-17 01:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer, "...my best friend also seemed to like her and she also seem to like him back..."
Stay where you are and let the two of them play out. If they get together, then be happy for them. If not, then try to drop some hints to her that you like her more than just a friend. In either case, keep in mind that she's not the last female on earth!
2007-02-17 01:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, why dont u talk to ur BFF about how u feel of her, see how he feels about her, I mean talk this over so you can do what u have to do, if u he doesnt like her then go with her or get to know her better so u CAN go with her and if he does like her then find someone else but remain friends with both of them. Make sure not to make such a big deal about this situation, cuz i`d hate for u to have to lose 2 friends.
2007-02-17 01:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just take the chance and tell her that I like her. That her friendship means alot to me but that you also find yourself attracted to her. And that you wonder if she might be interested in going out with you. If this friend of yours is a player then he really won't care. Just let him know what you plan to do and make sure he doesn't take it too hard.
2007-02-17 01:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you have her meet you for lunch and tell her how you really feel about her? Tell her all of the things you really like about her and why they are important to you. Then, if she chooses just to be a friend, she will value your friendship because she knows what she means to you. You may get lucky and find that she feels similar things towards you! Good luck.
2007-02-17 01:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your intention be known! No one is a mind reader, and stop worrying so much about your friend. Hook up with this gal and see where it goes!
Best of Luck!
2007-02-17 01:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, why are the girls presenting to the adult men? it incredibly is only tousled. btw, marry the lady u met first or the only with the appropriate character. identity only wait till i'm getting out of school and meet somebody else. harm off from those 2 and tell them to get lives with human beings.
2016-11-23 14:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are that trapped you had better get yourself sorted then, tell her you think she is someone special, and that you would like to get to know her a little bit more, and see what response you get
2007-02-17 01:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOLLOW your heart.
2007-02-17 01:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋