my boyfriend and i dated for 2 years and half of that we lived together we always broke up while living together. but this time when we broke up he moved to his friend house. and we talked about trying it again while not living together. we spent valintines day together. that same night his friend dad talk to him and said "you cant live here if you are going to go back and date her". so now he wants to wait till he gets his own place to be with me. and thats in four months. well he promise me he wont look for another gurl through this time . we really love each other. i dont know what to do. is the 4 months break a good thing? plz help me.
2007-02-17 01:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by angelina n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you need to follow your heart. But we are born with a woman intuition. it lets us know if we are doing the right thing, we get a feeling in the pit of our stomach,that maws at us until we just can't shake the feeling. in my opinion your boyfriend just want to be friends with you,and wants to see what else is out there. so my advice to you keep your friends close and your enemy closer.
2007-02-17 01:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by ladyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems necessary, but normally it's not good. When a guy says i want a break that normally means you won't get back together. But since the whole moving thing is in the way, i think he is serious about trying it again. Wait out the four months, don't give up on 2 1/2 years on nothing.
good luck!
2007-02-17 01:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not a good thing....If he loved you so much then why is he looking for his own place...If you can't seem to get along living together then there is no point in carring out this relationship...why on earth is he listening to his friends dad...Just move on this guy has got issues that you can't solve...
2007-02-17 01:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh,kinda tough situation,but if you really believe that you are really very much inlove to each other then release yourself from worrying,just continue on praying to GOD to help you conquer all the trials youre both encountering with your relationship
2007-02-17 01:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 4 month break means's he's going to party meet up with girls and blah blah blah trust me it's not worth it. Take it from a guy if my girlfriend and i were on a "4 month break" it would happen anything could...think logically
2007-02-17 01:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mike T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good or bad, you both need this time to think things out clearly and make sure that you both want the same thing, each other . if you both clearly love each other, you'll find a way to work everything out. best off luck.
2007-02-17 01:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by skip3800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is, then it isn't.
It IS because he can have time to breathe and think and reconsider being with you
it ISNT because he could forget about you, or find someone else, or realize being without you makes his life less hectic
Either way its best for you to keep contact with him, let him know you still exist
2007-02-17 01:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS ALL BAD CAUSE HOW HE GONE LET SOME ONE ELSE TELL HIM WHO TO DATE EVEN IF SOMEONE DID SAY THAT YALL CAN STILL SNEAK AROUND RIGHT THATS FUN TO ME. SO WHATS HIS DEAL. I THINK HE'S USEING THAT AS AN EXCUSE TO TAKE A BREAK. I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT ON THAT GUY TO MAKE UP HIS MIND GO AHEAD AND DO WHAT YOU DO.
2007-02-17 01:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months are you falling for that get rid of him,your worth more then that
2007-02-17 01:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋