i really like the girl im going to prom with. weve know each other for afew years and get along well. however i dont think she feels the same way about me and chances are we wont see much of each other after this (unless something happens) because of very busy scheduels and well be in different cegeps (colleges), although they are only 15 min away. i was wondering if i should tell her how i feel (like during the prom night or some other time as in before) or tell her how i fell as i say goodbye, or just say goodbye and hope to move on. i dont know....
o by the way about a year ago i asked her out, my timing sucked cuz she hadnt gotten over her bf at that time and wasnt too happy with guys at the time
so if yall have any suggestions......
2007-02-17 01:28:23 · 6 answers · asked by nascarfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel. You will regret it if you don't. If you don't tell her, years down the road you will think of her and wish that you had talked to her! The worst she says is she doesn't feel the same way, but at least you will know, and can move on and find someone else for a girlfriend!
It may be best to wait until after the prom is over, so you don't unintentionally ruin the night for her. But talk to her afterwards. Just don't act different during the prom so she worries something is the matter!
Good luck!
2007-02-17 01:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by jeepgirl0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the prom and enjoy each others company. Show her the best time and be a gentleman. If your college is 15 minutes away, maybe exchanging addresses would be a great idea or phone number. Tell her to call you whenever she needs you no matter day or night and tell her you will write her every now and then. It shows that you care and are interested in her. Just be there for her and when all else fails in her relationships with other guys, you will always be there.
2007-02-17 09:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a chance and just say it. I think that you should tell her how you feel at the end of the prom. And if she is really a good friend, if she dosent feel the same way, it shouldnt weird out you friendship. Good Luck :)
2007-02-17 09:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't want to tell her before the dance because if she says no..well.. ya know? And also you should not tell her as you say bye because she won't have time to tell you how she feels..so I think that the best thing to do is tell her when you two are slowdancing maybe..
2007-02-17 09:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by i miss himm.alott? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, because it will kill you inside not knowing. And she might hook up in college. Who knows, she might feel the same. When to tell her is up to you. Even if she says no, you wont have to face her, because you'll be in different colleges.
2007-02-17 09:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her if does or doesn;t fell the same who knows ,but you don.t want to go the rest of your life not knowing good luck
2007-02-17 09:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by robert s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋