Do u think it would be wrong if an 18 (about to turn 19) yr old. fell in love with a 40 yr old. I'm in that situation. I am 18 and the guy is 40. We r in love with each other and he is constantly telling me how much he wants me..i love him a lot...Do u think it un-wise if him and i got together?
2007-02-17 01:27:35 · 10 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur just..............
2007-02-17 01:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. Keep in mind you're still going to change a lot from 18 to 23, and the "you" now that is in love with this 40 year old man may not be the "you" then that stays in love with him. Typically, girls that find themselves in these situations (myself included) are looking for that strong, interesting male figure that their dad wasn't in their life. I would say to pass on the relationship, but if you can't, at the very least...do not marry him and do not have any kids with him. If you're still with him and love him terribly when your 23-25, then go ahead and marry him, but not before.
2007-02-17 09:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honnestly, love has no age. But you got to think clearly about this.
Nothing is worse than being stuck with something you end up not being happy with. If he loves you, he can wait. As you wait, all the answers will come to you. Its just a matter of time. Take your time and you will get your answer.
goodluck
cheers
2007-02-17 09:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by H Vice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. it may nt be wat u want to hear, but herez my answer for all its worth...first he will chase you/ let you do the dirty work for him to ease his mind that everythingz okay...then will come the roller coaster affair...and then definitely, the downfall...either he will have belated guilt, or he will leave you for "your own sake" or even if you guyz continue, you will be the loser. imagine, when ur just 38, he will be 60....its too much for u to handle at the young age of 18...look for someone ur own age, someone u can understand...dnt let someone use you. pls respect urself....dnt think, if u have a problem of insecurity, that an older guy wont leave you. he jolly well can...tell him to pick someone his own age...plzzzz listen to me.
2007-02-17 09:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care for each other wait a few years ---- i know its difficult --- my preference is to wait until you are at least 20 --- best wishes to you both --- (not that ive dated or wish to date a 20 yo)
2007-02-17 09:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 22 years is just a little to much.....
2007-02-17 09:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Twisty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU BELIEVE HE LOVES YOU THEN GO FOR IT. DONT TRIP ON WHAT OTHERS SAY, LIVE YOUR LIFE GIRL!
2007-02-17 09:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not unwise. Be happy
2007-02-17 09:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is more like your dad isit
2007-02-17 09:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-17 09:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by tom C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋