ok theres two boys there names are lucas goforth and tanner reed...
ok i like both of them really much and there atitudes are totally different and thats why im getting confused ok.
Tanner>He's sweet, king, a forgiving person, pleasant, funny, charming, smart, and a really nice person and he can draw really good and i mean really good you could tell him to draw like someone on a tv show and he can do it.
Lucas>Ok hes sweet, funny, like me sorta but a boy version and we have alot in comman and he can be very nice to me but not anyone else.
ok they are both nice boys but i dont know what to do.
Me> im sweet, nice, a very thougthful person, spiritive, good hearted (a.k.a tender hearted), and i can always look on the bright side of things
which one should i really keep an eye on
oh p.s im in 8th grade and im 14 1/2 years old just saying kk plz help and thanks for answering bye
and im not to young just plz answer my question.
2007-02-17 01:01:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that u should go with tanner cuz like Lucas seems kinda like he can b mean sometimes so like I wouldn't go with someone who could like b mean to my friends or stuff like that but I would follow ur heart cuz no one can tell u who to go out with. I am just sayin who I would pick.
2007-02-17 01:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Amber♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, from what you have said I personally feel you should go with Tanner. He seems to have many good qualities - ones which would make an ideal boyfriend. You say that Lucas is nice to you but no-one else - well you have to consider why this is? Is he nice to you just because he has to be - because he has an ulterior motive?
It also depends how long you have no the guys? Who do you feel you know the best?
With Tanner you are able to mention many more positive qualities indicating that he has much more to give to you.
Maybe try writing a list of the positive points and negative points of both, then see who comes out on top!
Good luck!
2007-02-17 01:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your 14 1/2 in 8th grade you have more important things to be worried about then boys leave them alone and get into highschool. Boys at that age only want thing thats between your legs. If you have all the time in the world to date and make mistakes but this is not the time. You can be strictly just friends with the boys with out dating them or having anykind of sexual contact. Get your education it will last you a lifetime. When the boys will come and go.
2007-02-17 01:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there lil girl!(i dun mean u too young)
Well,let's see here....
At 14...its unlikely you are looking at a long term relationship. Sounds like u got good choice!But here's the thing...Life's a gamble a lotta the times. Obviously u wanna do the "right" thing and go with one. I suggest you dont rush things...they will play out. Just dont get them mixed up. You dont have to choose either...at this point. U just have to make sure that when u choose, u will like your choise. You can start testing their characters to see who wud go the most miles for you...but most of all...look at yourself and the kind of guy u want to date...and compare them to that ideal man and whoever wins maybe the lucky one. Honestly ask yourself in detail what kind of guy u want..if they are still head to head,then broaden the scope...ask more questions!Maybe the way they talk to other people in general,maybe the way they treat their elders,or people they dont know,what they do when something goes wrong...do they look for someone to blame,or try to look for a solution regardless of who's at fault? Think of anything...the more more questions u ask...(and the answers u get from or about them) the clearer your choice will be...(hopefully!)Sure enough you will have two different scores...maybe that will help you choose.Good luck
2007-02-17 01:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the first guy because if the second guy is only nice to you he might have an underlying motive or he may even turn out like the guy in sleeping with the enemy a compulsive controlling personality. so id stick wid the first one, since he's different 2 u and therefore u can have more to talk about and it isnt boring. yeh hope i helped.
2007-02-17 01:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what age your Q. props up in most all femles lives some guys too.
Only you can tell,
When i start to like someone in a romantic sort of way, i get all funny inside. I feel my heart beating faster,
I feel butterflies in my tummy, and i feel weak at the knees,thats when know who is Mr Right.
2007-02-17 01:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by angela c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucas sound's like more you're type. Ask them to hang out with you at the same time , invite some friend's if you like. The guy who is more into you , will hang out with you more. Then choose who you are into.Then hopefully you will see who is the right choice.
Robin
2007-02-17 01:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by robin r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose basically me and my hubby. 3 in one mattress is a crowd, different than whilst this is between the cats. If compelled to confirm on, i might choose for 2 adult men and one woman. i think of having yet another woman in the mixture might basically be weird and wonderful (plus i'm getting jealous relatively actual).
2016-10-02 07:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said Lucas is a boy version of you that means your soul mates. Tanner will forgive you. ( probaly)
2007-02-17 01:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty Pie ozozoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Have to make a decision. Go With who you think you would have a longer , or full, relationship with. Go With Your Gut and believe in your Heart
2007-02-17 01:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by WHatup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋