would you go all the way to that country just to see him?
2007-02-17 00:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is the best thing the moment that lasts forever!
I would surely visit him,travel with him.... it would be so good....
patience and trust would definitely take this kind of relationship to eternity...that's till you get married and then its undoubtedly the best feeling that lasts forever!!!
2007-02-17 01:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. Whatever anyone says, and no matter how silly your situation seems, your feelings are real, and should be acknowledged. A couple of things: Obviously, you're not "in love" with these guys. But you are attracted and attached, and hope for what "could be" can be a powerful thing. Plus, when they "abandon" you after only a few dates, your pride is wounded, and that can make you feel unwanted and alone. That prompts feelings of depression, naturally. In this situation, you probably shouldn't have contacted him. If he were truly interested, he would've contacted you. Whatever he was doing on the date, even if it was leading you on (which he shouldn't have done if he didn't intend to follow through)...he obviously didn't decide to pursue it. Blech. His problem, and his loss. Likewise, this is not the time or place to contact him and "confront" him. You had no understanding or commitment with him, and so you need to let it go. If you believe in God, just trust in his providence for your life. He's in control, and knows far better who is best for you, and who you'll ultimately end up with. In the meantime, grieve the disappointment, but stay positive. Focus on all the qualities that make you a great catch. When the right guy comes along, he won't let you get away. Don't let yourself give in to depression...it's just not fair to you. You deserve to have a full life BETWEEN boyfriends, so don't find your identity in them. All the best...hang in there. :-)
2016-03-28 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, why not? It would at least be a good chance to travel. Im sure you could convince him to pay for some if not all of it. make sure that it is indeed him and that he isnt looking to mount your head on his wall or something. If that was out of the question, then id say fall in love with someone closer, guys are a dime a dozen out there.
2007-02-17 00:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather get on the bus and be with him...
Why not!
Falling in love is ones in lifetime
who cares at least your happy
2007-02-17 00:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case, i got the ticket and he took care of everything during my stay in the country he's at.
why don't you tell him how you feel? if he sounds cooperative, i'd say you go see him*
you live only once**
2007-02-17 01:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will definitely visit his country just to see him... love is not always there when we need it... who knows? that person might be your soul mate... go for it!...
2007-02-17 00:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by SubySmaller. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, but only if he asks me to do that...
Only if ..if he has somenthing "extraordinary" to offer, while i'm visiting him ...
Well you said ...."If you fell deeply in Love"... yes, if i am deeply in love, i would ...
2007-02-17 01:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy --- its easier for me to go to her --- visa restrictions are less to go to her --- and then we can get a visa for her to come back with me and become my wife
2007-02-17 00:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be the one to get on the plane to
see you.
2007-02-17 00:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by ce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit wasting your time, your not special to him
2007-02-17 00:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋