dis guy & i had a fling last year which ended in tears on my part coz hez fwends told him not 2 persue a relationship wit me coz im black(&hez not) we den stoped conversating coz of dat. now dis year da fwends are gone and hez all fwendly(tooo fwendly) wit me and im starting 2 develop feelngs 4 hm again and i tink he also lyks me 2. so wat should i do???
2007-02-17 00:40:17 · 18 answers · asked by kandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 all you slow people dis is sms type of writing so pls get with the programme and answer the question OKAY
2007-02-17 00:55:58 · update #1
well..you should give it another chance.. but what bothers me is that you guys shouldven't ended it in the first place..just because couple of guys told you its not right,doesn't mean its true... you can't let words ruin your love.. but when you stated that this guy allowed ur relationship to end, it seems that he doesn't like you as much as you think and it could also be the signed of weakness.... you should be careful. who you should give you heart too... you never know his friends might be right..but just remember.. don't always listen to your heart, sometimes listen to your brain and use common sense..remember follow ur heart is the key of happiness, listening to ur brain is the key of success, if you want both you have to fine something that ur heart and brain agrees on the same thing>goodluck
2007-02-17 00:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by mike s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok no insult meant here but if ya want a question answered you have to write so people know what you are asking.
But to answer your question I think you are asking I can only say what I ahve always said, which is : True love has no age or color,hight, or weight. True love does not see these things.
Good Luck
2007-02-17 09:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by majean52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go back with him pursue your relationship. Whats important is that you ove each other. and about he's friends they are not or should not included in between you two love birds
tell them not to party on your relationship...
and they should have there own borderline
you know sometimes there should be a line drawn between friends and the girlfriend
for christ sake tell that to your guy
you GO girl! you can do that!!! ;-)
2007-02-17 09:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,If U really luv some one U wuldnt care wat color they are!So I think U should just b his friend & find a better person 4 yo boyfriend!! Im NOT tryna b mean,but usually that means he iz tryna use U 4 sumthin he want.Im sure U can find sumbody that cares 4 yo feelins more than his popularity 2 his friendz! Because that was a durty thang 2 do!!Good luck in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 09:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bubble Yum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stopped talking to u cos his friends told him to, regardless of the fact that ur black and he's not, then he's a jerk anyway.
Now with the added bit about the colour, he's a major jerk.
U should forget about him, move on to a guy who loves u for u, and not only when his mates aren't around.
2007-02-17 08:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you if you wan't to go back into a relationship with him and give him another chance. Personally, I wouldn't, because what he did was a very racist thing to do, but if you like him like that, just speak to him and let your true feelings come out. Never hide anything. If it works out then it was meant to be.
2007-02-17 08:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he couldn't deal with race then, he wont when his friends come around again, or the whole stigma cast by society. You should look for someone who is strong enough to make his own decisions
2007-02-17 08:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start up a friendship again, not a fling. If he is a true friend, he doesnt care what your race is. I am sorry you had to go through that.
2007-02-17 08:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mum to 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way the question is worded I would say leave it alone. If you are over him already then just keep on keepin on. I think you are too young to get hurt over and over again and if he is young like you he will keep getting pressured by his friends to do things. You are better off just being friends and finding someone else to be your bf.
2007-02-17 08:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the fact that he done what his freinds said that should tellyou that he is a dirt bag because it shouldnt matter about what colour your skin is its the person underneath that counts so i say go find your self a real man who will like you for you and not what colour your skin is you deserve better good luck
2007-02-17 08:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by cristle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋