We are thinking about getting pre-marital counseling because we both come from families with unsuccessful marriages and want to do what we can to build a strong marriage from the start. Are you/Have you and your fiance/husband also pondered pre-marital counseling before your wedding?
2007-02-17 00:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by ladymai21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
We took the church required classes. We've been together for 7 years and lived together for 1 before the classes. We'd talked about all the topics and still there were some aspects we hadn't gotten to. It is really helpful to bring up all the things like children and money and a myriad other topics that everyone should talk about before marriage. I would definitely recommend pre-marital counseling to every couple.
2007-02-17 02:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by rosekm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 05:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my fiance and I are getting pre-marital counselling. We come from families of sucessful marriages, but it's a requirement that the church and our parents (who are paying) have for us. Personally, I think it's not going to be useful at all, for us since we live together, but if you think it's necessary, go for it!
2007-02-17 01:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am. Not because of our families marital successful or unsuccessful marriages but because it is mandated by the church.
2007-02-17 11:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by sjlova86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We did; it was required by the church. Everyone should go, regardless. It brings up a lot of questions/ideas you may not have already discussed as a couple to prepare you for the marriage, not just the wedding.
2007-02-17 00:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never bad to get counceling, especially for such a big and special occasion in your lives! It's required by my fiance's church so we're doing it there but also at my church. more advise and wisdom can do no harm especially if your families were unsucessful.
I say do it for sure! You'll probably learn a lot.
2007-02-17 20:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. I think it's a good idea. If your future husband and you both agree to do it, I think it can only help. Do some research on the person you are going to use.
2007-02-17 00:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by SelfGrill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I told her I didn't like the way she cooked Peas so I kicked her out! If the girl can't cook peas who knows what else she might not be good at!!
2007-02-17 00:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
yes u should..
2007-02-17 00:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋