how much important is the virginity to marry a girl?

Question

how much important is the virginity of a girl to marry a girl
what if the person she told was in relation with her... stand before you and say hallo to you ....

Answer 1

Virginity isn't important at all these days.

Answer 2

Virginity still is important in many societies especially muslim ones. It is the honor of the family and some girls are still killed by fathers or brothers if they have lost theirs.
It is again a means for men to keep women into their power.
But fortunately our occidental societies have evolved into more comprehension, though on the back of men it must give them a secret pleasure that they are the one and that no comparison can be made in the way they proceed into sexual intercourse.

Answer 3

If we know before marriage that other person is virgin or not, there will not be any problems about it afterwards,but if we find out the reality after marriage,it is like breach of trust and we feel like getting a car with lot of miles on it even if we were expecting a new one.Every relationship should be based on mutual trust.

Answer 4

to behonest with you it hard to find a woman that have virginity... but you know I was virginity until I was 23 years old met that girl and had sex and then broken up with her and then five years later went back to her life and guess what she and I got married for 9 years... 3 kids. You know that it hard to find girl with virginity... only you can find is NUN women... smiling

Answer 5

Better avoid virgin girls for marriage. She should have been so unapproachable and unsociable with men that she remained a virgin till marriage. It is shameful and selfish. Such women are probably not good to live with. It is highly unnatural to remain virgin till marriage.

Answer 6

The most important thing is that both of you should love each other. Yo udon't fall in love just because a person is virgin but because you feel he/she is the best suite for you.

And you don't needd to be embarassed to met your spouse's ex. He should be embarrasssed instead for losing such a wonderful person...

:-)

Answer 7

Virginity should be important because then you would feel not as loved because she could be thinking about her ex when having sex. Or she could have remorse and never want to have sex as often as she did with her ex or one night stand.

Answer 8

Depend on the culture ....
in eastern cultures it is very wrong to loose virginity before marriage while pre marriage sex is normal in western cultures Personally I think our actions must reflects our believes ...if you believe pre marriage sex is wrong so don't do it ...if you thinks it is okey so no problem ....but i think it is very cheap to do everything but not intercouse so you stay a virgin and thearfore have more chance in marriage because you are cheating your future husband by doing that !.
but i think men and women should be treated equally in this regard ......men must accept for thier partners what they accept for themselves because men and woman are equal..
when a man wants a virgin wife ,,,a question come up is he virgin himself! and by the wa ywho loves you will accept you the way you are and no one is perfect !

Answer 9

very much important, but parameters should be same for boy & girl, means if u expect that, girl should be virgin then u should also be virgin at the time of marriege.

Answer 10

Why the girl alone should suffer and not her sex mate? Make a good traingle with love and peace, sharing joys & sorrows. Marry her proudly and enjoy happy marital life with her past experiences.

In India there is age restriction for marriage (not for unwed sexual activities), 18+ for girls and 21+ for boys. If married, the under aged their parents/elders and others who got performed such marriage will be punished under Child Marriage Restraint Act.
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.

All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, unwed voluntary sexual intercourse also is a great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones. Muslims firmly believe and strictly practice the teachings/commands of their holy book Quran & their Prophet, which is their Code of Life at all times/places. They have the written, clear and unambiguous teachings to guide righteous or wrongs, pious or evil, fair or unfair, etc. They follow them blindly in matters of responsibilities, liabilities, rights, daily life, marriage, private & public relation, business, trade, earning & spending, etc. and do the righteous and refrain from bad. Anybody may read, satisfy, accept and practice it.