I have asked alot of questions about this. This girl is 18 and visiting from England. She leaves today. I got to see her last night and it was a really good night but I wasnt able to ask for her email address because of the way everything went. Before I left she made sure that I came to see her tomorrow(today) and I told her I would. I dont know what is going to happen and how I am going to talk to her alone, but today I have to do it. I have to give her my email address. I'll ask her if she has a computer. Then she will say yes. Then I will say I should give you my email address so you can show the pictures you took. Then see what happens. Is that a good way to do it? What can I do to be alone with her for just a little to ask her this?
2007-02-17 00:21:13 · 13 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your plan is good. And you can ask her even if there are other people around!
2007-02-17 00:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by M 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, there are a lot of things you're not saying so I'll just try to fill in the blanks. You all sound like you're very young, maybe early teens? Is there a situation going on that you are never alone with her? I mean is she married or her parents extremely protective or what? If the answer is NO to both those questions then you don't have to be alone to ask her for her email address. You can just come right out and say, hey, its been really nice seeing you and I hope we can stay in touch with each other. Then ask her if she has a computer (which I'm sure she does) and just ask her if she wants to exchange email addresses. Hope it works out and don't be afraid!
2007-02-17 08:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Alphonso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't understand why you think you need to be alone to ask her for an e-mail address. If she likes you and wants to stay in touch with you when she goes back home it shouldn't be a problem. It sounds like you want something more from her than just an email address so ask yourself these questions. Does she visit the States often?...Do you visit England often?...Do you really want to try a relationship with a girl who lives 3,000 miles away? no matter how much you like her?.....Is this just infatuation with a beautiful stranger or are you really in love and willing to go through all the hardships that come with a long-distance relationship?... It seems to me that there are far harder things at stake here than just e-mail, but if that's all you want or you just want someway to get your foot in the door, just ask her and see if there is any interest there, you have nothing to lose by trying cause she's not yours yet but she never will be if you don't give it a shot. Good Luck man , I hope it works out for you.
2007-02-17 08:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ray H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just write your email address on a piece of paper and then just give it to her and ask her to keep in touch and email those pics to you,. You don't need to be with her alone to do this. Show some assertiveness and seize the day!
2007-02-17 08:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and just say 'can I speak to you a moment' then do what you say, ask about the computer and give her your email address. Whatever happens don't let the opportunity pass, or you'll forever be kicking yourself.
Wishing you luck
2007-02-17 08:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it natural to share email addresses on leaving especially if you have taken a few pictures. You just have to ask without being shy. If she is reluctant to it, tell you she is not the nice girl you had figured, and drop the subject at once.
But as she is the one who seemed willing to meet again before parting, you don't risk much in my opinion.
2007-02-17 08:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write your email address down and give it to her, surreptitiously if she is chaperoned. If you are having problems meeting her alone because of religious reasons be careful in how you do this.
If she wants to keep in contact she will find a way.
Good luck.
2007-02-17 08:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by lifesagambol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy! If you like this girl then tell her.
Getting her e,mail address is a good start to friendship and maybe more! You have nothing to lose but loads to gain!! Good luck mate!!
2007-02-17 08:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by matt k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant see a problem have your e-mail address nicely written
out for her and just say it would be nice to keep in touch and talk some time even if she cant go to the expense of her own computer all library's have them for public use and there's these cafes these days
2007-02-17 08:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by raymond b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jamand, ask to have a word with her in private and get her attention whatever it takes cos u seem to really want her to have ur email so work on it!
2007-02-17 08:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋