Is it a sex party everynight? Do you have a diffent lover for everyday of the week?
Or is it just the media hyping up the single life.
2007-02-17 00:00:05 · 18 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on your age, finances and what you look like (not necessarily in that order). It can be lonly as anything, sitting home just you and the TV. or you off trying to score, spending lots of cash and coming home empty handed or coming home with someone who is worse than what you have now.
You might get lucky and find someone new but it isn't as easy as it looks. ok, sometimes it is but that's a 1 in a 1,000 chance.
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2007-02-17 00:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single is great, uno u get to do what u want, when u want to without having to explain urself to someone, or have someone ringing and textin all the time to check up on u. u get to hang out with ur friends as much as u like and just live it up!
But it doesn't involve having a sex party every night or a different lover everyday of the week, this is real life not a hollywood movie and we're real people not Angelina Jolie or Paris Hilton.
A lot of my friends (girls) are single and even though they don't mind it, what they really want is someone in their life to show them some affection and hang out with them, even if it is just cuddling in front of the tv or a long late night chat on the phone. There is no substitute for someone genuinely caring for u and wanting u, no matter how many one night stands u have.
Being single is hard if u've just been dating/seeing a guy or been in a relationship cos u miss all that attention and time that u spent with him.
2007-02-17 08:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is all in what you want. If i was at a bar or making love i would not be on here. I have been single more then once and the second time i did not know how to act or react but since then i know how to be heart broken in the proper manner. The third time all it took was crying solid for 3 months then a one night stand and he even said I love You to me. I walked away but appreciated the favor. This last time i am enjoying reading-pets and the computer. 1st. Husband helped me get over the shock of knowing the third marriage would not work out. I really tried. It would be nicer to have a man to love and cuddle up with but i can live without getting hurt again so that is what being single is like for me. What is it like for you whether you are single or not -you are not being fair.
2007-02-17 08:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not sure where you would get that kind of inforamtion but I don't know any single peopl ewho have any kind of party every night.... most of us have jobs and homes to look after (unless you are a single teenager) and some of us are single parents. As for the sex party and different lover for every day of the week, why would anyone want that, even if it was available to you? I am sure I could go out to a bar and pick someone up but sex for the sake of sex with a stranger is not my idea of fun and talk about dangerous!!
2007-02-17 08:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by allie_19692002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex party everynight? What with myself? Different lovers for everyday of the week? Do you mean the ones you blow up? Being single is boring! Lonely! No one to come home to at night. I hate being single.
2007-02-17 08:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been single for the past coupld of years and I tell you I would have not done all the things I have done if I was with a boyfriend. I have travelled around the world, met loads of friends, if I had a man hanging on my arm I probably would not have.
I have made loads of cash and spent it all on me me me!!! Im not into the different lover everyday but if I wanted it yes it was there on the platter, I choose who or when!!! Its great no strings attached, good news is that I enjoyed been independent and now I have found someone to spend my life with!
2007-02-17 08:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all singles are promiscuous. Some, like myself, have more fun essentially ignoring guys. Others (the ones who don't like being single) are too neurotic to even think about sleeping around. The media (from the clip I saw on Fox) is warping singlehood into a society of sluts — probably to encourage more people into couplehood. But that kind of spin won't have a good deal of potency.
2007-02-17 09:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually the grass does get greener on the other side and if you're single for too long,you mite not be thinking bout sex parties,instead you 'll be wishing for a lover to sweep you off your feet. different lover everyday not such an exiting idea.. a loyal hot guy- much more exiting !!
2007-02-17 08:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the media. But i guess if you tried to live that kind of life its possible.
2007-02-17 08:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Spatz Columbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just life with it ok.. u does not need to be be involve in those activity.. just be urself if u dont want to be a ***** or a jerk..
listen to pink - stupid girl if u are a chick
respect ur self.. enjoy ur single life..
2007-02-17 08:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋