2007-02-16 23:55:52 · 27 answers · asked by mis_rea24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
They have reasons. They just don't always make them clear. Probably to avoid confrontation.
2007-02-17 00:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a little "story" that I really like that helps explain...
A Reason A Season and A Lifetime"© by Brain A. "Drew" Chalker.
People always come into you life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
Lifetime, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
2007-02-17 08:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by allie_19692002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that some people just come into our lives, and then, for whatever reason, appear to "leave" us. I skimmed over some of the other answers, and I have come up with a couple of different ideas. People each have their own track that they are on, and sometimes, their track is not the same as yours. No one ever said it wouldn't hurt when those people are not in our lives anymore. Let that person be, and think of all that people that you still do have in your life, and who you might meet in the future!
Something else to chew on....can you think of anyone who you stopped talking to, by your choice? Surely there is a partner you have dumped, a friend you have lost touch with, etc. Those people may wonder why you are not in their life anymore as well.
Another thought, I think some people who come into our lives for short times are sort of like angels. They are meant to be there, and meant to leave. And, hopefully, all for good reason.
2007-02-17 23:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by mpk33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the pace of life today are friends get busy with there lives and work or school and responsibility's. We all have a journey that we are on and each is different then the others,people walk in and out of our lives always. We can be grateful that they where there at that time in our lives,for what ever reason.We all grow differently, life goes on.We must keep growing too.
2007-02-17 08:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by beverly c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes time to realise that the situation you are in is not what you want.
If someone walks away, its because they want to. Nothing you can do can stop anyone from doing what they want, in the long term.
Its unfair that you dont know the reason, but it may be the kind option.
Move on, see friends & have fun. Your'e better off without someone you cant trust to stick around.
2007-02-17 08:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jen G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is always a reason, are you sure you were listening when they spoke to you about it? People don't just walk away if they are happy, maybe that was the reason..unhappiness? It can be tough to be criticised, no one likes to be told bad things about themself, so maybe you chose not to hear what the person was saying.
2007-02-20 05:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes awhile to just step back and look at the situation or relationship. They might decide they need a break or just want to acheive different things than you do.
Friendly Advice: Appreciate what you have before it's gone.
2007-02-17 08:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Nattie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good sense? they are looking for greener pastures...let them go don't be a moon face cafe...don't be a jabber jaw...just suck it up and realize that this is the way of the world...they may come back and the stories they will tell! oh how boring if you have to play mr. i don't like it when you go...boo hoo...be a man and take what cards life deals you. There is always a reason..don't be that naive
2007-02-17 08:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't like you? Feel they are causing hurt? Have a secret they don't want to share? Feel they will let you down? Owe you money? Can't keep a promise they made? The list is endless and since you haven't elaborated don't know if you want a specific answer to a certain senario?
2007-02-17 18:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people spend their lives using others for what they can, then once they've got that, they leave and move on to the next unsuspecting friend.
2007-02-20 18:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by lynn a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they felt they made a wrong decision perhaps.
That doesn't excuse not giving a reason as there's always a reason behind every action
2007-02-17 08:10:48 · answer #11 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋