2007-02-16 23:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by YUNG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here's the deal. You can keep her but let her know that if anything like this ever happens again you will be nothing more than a memory.
To forgive her is to give her a license to cheat again. and again. and again.
2007-02-17 00:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out why did she did that and if she was forced or any problem then forgive her or because some rumors about you was said to her then try to make up her mind try to feel her feelings and then your heart will say the answer you know your girlfriend more than me. And if she went with another boy and you are sure you break up with her because you will have no good future I said to you this because I am a girl who is being cheated by a boy who had more than seven girlfriends
2007-02-17 00:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you gotta leave her. People who cheat have issues adn unless she goes and gets help to solve those issues, she'll cheat on you again. I know its hard to accept and if you feel like you cant leave just yet, take a step back, ease off, dont be so emotionally attached. But ultimately man, you gotta leave.
2007-02-17 00:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by macmurphy45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how bad it effected u.. you have to ask yourself if you really love this person, and ready to take another risk. pain is something you can't take away.. one way or another it would come. if you really like this person and think that it can work out, give her another chance, but if not don't torture urself and move on. just remember not to always follow your heart, it wouldn't hurt to listen to ur brain and common sense. the greatest feeling of making a choice is when your mind and heart is agreeing on the same thing.. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-17 00:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by mike s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what u mean by cheated..if it is unacceptable and there is no way to find a truce, do it then . but make sure u got ething covered. dun just break up wif sum1 if u not sure and for the sake of it. got it ? u shud got balls , dude.
2007-02-17 00:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by steen_012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heavens no! what is one slice off a loaf of bread?
how many men have cheated on their women and gotten away with thant..?? well, you are no saint either and if thats all that is bothering you then you are a big man with a little heart.
if you really want to impress this gal..tell her its ok with you as long as she don't make it a habit to do it with every tom dick or harry...you play the higher ground as do you want a women that nobody else wants? hell no
2007-02-16 23:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this situation, i would say that the choice is totally up to you. if you believe that your girlfriend is just going to keep cheating on you (which usually happens to be the case), then break it off. if she's really sorry and she realized how stupid she was for hurting someone she cares about, then keep her, but be cautious, and not paranoid.
2007-02-17 00:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you base your relationship on, some people can accept these things and carry on in the relationship, however if its based on trust then all sorts of complications start to set in, you start questioning the partner, where are they? where did they go? etc...because you have lost trust in them and always wander if they r going to do it again. Personally if my partner cheats on me he gets the boot straight up the bum, there's no going back only forward i wouldn't want to sleep with him again knowing he's put it else where. You and only you have to make the decision can you hack it.
2007-02-17 00:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by mazza999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up, but go have a cry n let her no ur upset then she'll probably be sorry for doin that to u. But if she does it again well then get rid of her
2007-02-17 00:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your tiered of her tell her to run off with the other guy. But if you still have feelings give her 1 more chance.
2007-02-17 00:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty Pie ozozoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋