only that, but.... you discovered, their partner is a regular user on this site?
2007-02-16 23:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not a bloody man, it's a woman and their partner on this site is male
2007-02-17 00:15:24 · update #1
I would suggest that you terminate this relationship.
2007-02-16 23:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by krupsk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you just discovered that the person with whom you are having a relationship is married? Well dump them because what they are doing to their partner they will do to you. People are stupid in this way they believe that it will not happen to them and they are the ideal person for this person who cheats, a person who cheats isn't worthwhile going out with. I knew a woman once who was going out with a married man and he got found out and all his children said they would ostracise him if he carried on with his new partner. He promised this women he was having an affair with that he would leave his wife for her. He never did he had too much to lose to leave his wife.
Also if his/her partner is a regular user on this site, she/he might catch you out. A man or woman who cheats on their partner isn't to be trusted.
2007-02-17 08:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by mellouckili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing them, the fact their partner was a regular user on this site would mean nothing to me, its not my place to tell her.
2007-02-17 07:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would stop seeing them.
If you are in love & they love you, and he/she is telling you that he/she will leave their partner for you then if you stop seeing them you will know how they really feel. If its real love and they cant live without you then it'll give them the incentive to do the right thing.
If its just sex then there is plenty of single people out there to play with.
2007-02-17 07:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they deserve to know their partner is cheating on them. But their partner should be the one to tell them it's between them, however if they refuse to tell them at least you know you did the right thing be ending it now and walking away.
2007-02-17 13:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Char Black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the person in the balls and I wouldn`t tell the other person because the partner hasn`t done any thing to harm me so why would I harm them?
2007-02-17 08:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by caitlin_the_skeptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing them straight off. Do not be tempted to tell their partner to see whether you could get them to yourself.
This will just make you seem petty.
Say goodbye and meet someone who is worth it
2007-02-17 08:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out quick... it will cause nothing but heartache for at least one person... (and possibly a short, sharp, well directed aim, type of pain in the groin area for the cheater!!!) ;)
2007-02-17 08:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by fle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.o how sad...the best thing to do is stop this relationship,..., if you still like that person and you discovered that he/she's being married with another,..., well try to stop your relationship before it hurts you and the best thing to do is...............talk to that person and and try to understand it!!!!
2007-02-17 08:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find Another site to chat on then you won't get caught chatting at least.
2007-02-17 08:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋