I'm an above average looking female.I am not fat nor do I look my age.I've got a nice figure and I'm very pretty.I'm also confident, fun and easy to talk to.So why is it the oppisite sex that R flirting and showing intrest are less than flattering?Actually it's kind of a downer.Maybe I'm not all that attractive after all..Desprate for an ego boost.
2007-02-16 23:26:04 · 12 answers · asked by rozerred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my friend used to say that when the ugly one's honked at us on the street. I think the answer to your question is that they are so used to getting turned down. They figure "Why not try? All she can say is no" and the good looking ones - on the other hand - seem to be more quiet and not as apt to ask every girl they see out because they are afraid of rejection as us above average looking females are. I had an old drunk man in a bar one night actually ask me to come to his motel room! It will get better! I promise!
2007-02-16 23:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older and ugly men have a more direct method of 'hitting' on younger pretty women they find attractive.
Guys you'd want to be out with, take longer to warm up and ask you out.
You also have to create circumstances where you get the environment and the results you want.
2007-02-16 23:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL trust me few years back i needed to grow taller loose weight and just get a makeover i got all of it won beauty pagaents rich beautiful good education till date other then my best friend male i dont care which guy likes loves me since he was with me through everything
2007-02-16 23:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by bitezoflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so beautifule and sexy that the average man is afraid to ask because you will probably turn him down and he will be embarrased.
Only old, ugly men have enough money to be able to afford your wants, so they are the only ones that ask you.
2007-02-16 23:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too nice. Guys get their hopes up easily. Often, all it takes is a smile and eye to eye contact. Heh!
2007-02-16 23:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Old men love a pretty girl that's why they hit on you. So i am 24 and i am hitting on you know, Hey baby you are hot want to chat with me and make my day better . xoxoxoxoxo
2007-02-16 23:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if I knew how u looked the question might be easier to answer but who knows older dudes are just pervs I know because my uncles are all creeps when it came time to meet my gf's
2007-02-16 23:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this problem, too.:) i think they just think they cant loose anything therefore they just do it. anyway, lot of loosers r like these too, they go to every girl to ask to dance n nobody wants. they will be desperate n itz a cirlcle...
2007-02-16 23:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. jus somethin to think about..
do u want someone to hit on u cuz of ur body n face?..i dunno..
i know this'll sound cliche, but the knight in shining armor usually only exists in dreamworld, girl.. good guys don't always look flattering.. in fact, many of the flattering ones are those who have much fun hittin on girls n dumpin them the next day..right?...
jus be careful k... if u're pretty, than u jus gotta be confident..be who u are...thats enough i guess... anythin other than that, u'll be hit by guys who jus want ur body...not YOU..
2007-02-16 23:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they are the only knid of men around your comminity
2007-02-16 23:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋