If you were in a relationship, would you still go out?

Question

for drinks with an attractive person if they offered? I did a favor for them and now they want to repay me in some way.

Answer 1

There is "usually" a hidden or separate agenda when a guy asks a lady for drinks. I am not saying always.... but most often. A few drinks lower the inhabitions and soon true feelings surface. "Vino Veratase" ... Latin for... "in wine is truth" . What is the nature of your relationship with your man? Are you both open and honest and trust each other? Or are there secretes and Jealousy? ...Only you know that and you must ask yourself...What your agenda is here? If it is just an innocent meeting and all parties are aware of the circumstances then it should be cool... But, you say this person is "attractive" ... that perhaps implies you are attracted. And if the other guy wants to "repay a favor" ... there are other ways. You might do yourself a "favor" and say no to the whole deal if you don't want to complicate your relationship...... Just a thought... Peace....

Answer 2

My wife and I both agree, and we have been doing this since we got serious about our relationship way back when. If you are in a committed relationship why would you put yourself in a situation that could be tempting? You know this other person is attractive, one on one could be a bad thing, add alcohol to the equation your inhibition lowers along with your judgment, the next thing you know is you’re in the bed of a person that is not your companion. So… never do a one on one with any one of the opposite sex unless it is your committed partner. But I have been married to the same exciting sexy woman for 10 years now… what do I know? : )

Answer 3

Sure and take my boyfriend with me, They want to repay you why can't your boyfriend go or do you really want to be alone with person and get a feel if he has the hots for you, so you can dump your boyfriend who probably a good guy but your caught up in self thinking the grass might be greener on the other side.

Answer 4

Hey!
Is this something that you can openly and freely tell your partner, "hey hon, so and so asked me out for drinks...what do you think about me going...would you like to come along??" If your partner doesn't mind, there's no problem in you going, as long as the person knows that nothing's going to happen. However, if you feel like this is something that you have to keep from your partner (are you attracted to this person?), then maybe it's best to decline the offer.

Answer 5

coffee is a drink
soda pop is a drink
if the person has honest intentions then it does not matter if booze is included.
booze is often used for people to have made sex more possible.
why not a good meal with out booze, wine, or beer.
whats the matter? does this relationship depend on getting high to succeed? the road to hell is paved with good intentions..why start out a relationship all pie eyed and fuzzy thinking?

Answer 6

Yes but you should tell your partner and give them the option to come along if they wish.

Answer 7

well, if that person is just a friend, then whats wrong with going out with out with them... well, it actualy depends on the person who asks u to go out with...

Answer 8

it depends. if im already committed to someone else i dont need to go out for other guys.. but if its all about family affair or our friends sure il go out...

Answer 9

yes but ask your other half first

Answer 10

the couple can go out together,...itz cute,....and innocent at the same time.