Ladies why is it so difficult to find a good looking man and keep him? I am an attractive girl with usual desirable statistics and I do find men fancy me, in fact this is big headed but quite a few do, why do I never fancy those guys? It's like the ugly guys love to try their luck but never the good looking ones, really irritating! And don't bother with the whole personality thing guys, I am not interested in personality at all at the moment, im basing my man hunt through looks to begin with so I know what im getting, then judge personality once through to stage two LOL! I am a nice girl but I know I dont sound it, oops oh well! I just know what I want!
2007-02-16 22:38:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No no I tried the personality thing before but the personality I was shown to start with wasn't the personality it turned out to be. Don't want that anymore. Come on im only 20! Dont want to get married, just want some fun! I have had really hot guys in the past and not so hot guys. I have put pictures of my on yahoo 360 so check them out. At least if I base it on looks I am getting what I see! Im not Jessica Alba or anything and im not looking for Brad pitt! Just someone that I am physically attracted to, is that so much to ask for?
2007-02-16 23:14:29 · update #1
I have the same problem as you, I am only physically attracted to good looking men, but as you say they are hard to find ones who are attractive and single. I hate to say this but it seems to be true, there just is far more attractive women. I think it is because men age quicker than women do, and I find so many women attractive what ever age they are, but men are past their sell by date in their forties.
I have been on my-space and I had lots of men writing to me, I only answered the attractive men because that is all you have to go by on the Internet looks, and guess what they turned out to be men using other men's profiles to get dates. So most of the attractive men were not who they say they are. I also had less attractive men writing to me and ugly old men too, and they are most probably who they say they are. I am going through just what you are. I am almost giving up myself because yes attraction does matter. Although personality does too in a long term relationship. I also am considered quite attractive too but men who are attractive single and decent are just so hard to find, so basically it is hard to find your equivalent in a man.
I just think that there is far more attractive, decent, good women out there than men.
2007-02-17 00:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by mellouckili 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps, you're too much searching for 'an almost perfect guy' in everything. You can never seek for him. Look, see what is the real side of a person not the bogus one. There are plenty of life you elsewhere. Why don't you feel someone who is meant for you? I believe that when you fall in love with someone who is really meant for you, all of the standards of a Guy that you've been searching to, will vanished!
Why is it that it seems, you are sooooo dying hard to find a good looking man?? Oh girl!! If you are really that pretty enough as you think, see for the inner you and wait patienty because, if you really deserves ' a good looking man' that what's your saying is.... all i can suggest is.... why don't you be at yourself and a right man at the right place will be there for you, just feel the rhythm of love not the standards or a quality of a man.
2007-02-16 22:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once worked with a gal and she was awe-striking!! Lord have mercy.....she was to die for!! Then she opened her mouth and spoke!! Can you say "High Maintance", "Moody", and she said she was a "Nice Girl" too. Understand though, she was much younger than me, but her "Ideals" concerning men were unusual. She had to have a great looking man, that made lots of money. She now is alone, slightly wierd in the head, but mostly alone. Another thing, she's older now and looks the part too, but thinks she is still too much. Problem now is, she's with the guys that she loathed before, they just weren't up to par for her, at that time. The answer to her situation?? She was looking for all the wrong traits, all this time.
Last i heard, she was shacking with a guy that "Deals". Hummm I wonder how that happened???
Moral to the story. If your so busy seeing the "Flash" , you miss the bang! You miss the bang, because of the flash, you never know if it was fired at you or someone else. By then....it may be too late for you. It's better to dig deep first, know the story and then move on.
2007-02-16 22:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look hun I am a attractive guy, the typical beach boy the whole blonde hair, blue eyed deal but I am a ***. I was married to the most beautiful girl, she modeled and could not stay faithful to her needless to say we are currently going through a divorce. When I go out and have some cocktails I do not hit on other women, If they want to speak to me then they can come up to me. I am moody, self centered, and an egotystical prick, so take it from me looks r deceiving,I always looking for the next best think or at least I was. You can look in someones eyes and see the truth, A pretty face is nice to look at but at what point do you sacrifice looks for personality, I struggle with that alot, I will always go for the good looks. If you have not figured it out look at my personality, Now you know I am also shallow, Maybe you are the same type of person? My saying is that " VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE "
2007-02-16 23:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by iamthatguy27 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You've just insulted the half of the human race. If you are true than the majority of males answering this question will be ugly (so you've probably assumed I'm ugly). I think I'll go off and cry. But really if there aren't any good looking men, then natural selection isn't doing it's job. SACK natural selection! Hire creationism instead (Actually don't creationism is too overpriced, we can't afford him/her/it.)
2016-03-28 23:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a god-looking guy who could have all the women he wants, just stay with one? I mean you would get bored with the same one and when u have all these other hot girls coming on to u. W ell maybe like in late 30's to mid 40's and it time to settle down...and even then theres alittle more wear and tear on the face. The fact is Attractive girls are good for having a good time and such...and personality is better 4 a long term relationship.
2007-02-16 22:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its all Part of the game the ugly one fancy you because you probably flurt with them unintentionally cause u know you can get there attention even though your not interested in them your toying with them and men love the chase, the good looking ones you are probably showing interest to easily there no chase or challenge, next time you meet a good looking guy you like try treating him like you would if he was ugly, I bet you'll see the results.
2007-02-16 22:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by megamcfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good looking guys think that all women will fall at their feet and that is why only ugly ones chat women up. I am with you about the personality thing an honest person is attracted to someone on looks first personality comes later. I mean you have to fancy the guy to date him.
2007-02-16 23:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Usually good looks go with money and education. Sounds like your very shallow, don't have a lot to really talk about. Give the ugly dumb guy a shot, might find out he's better then you think.
2007-02-16 22:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lady, were out here in droves, but beauty is in teh eye of the beholder.. my wife is gorgeous, but you may not like her red hair and pale complexion... (Irish Viking)
be honest, yuo want sex, put a bag on his head and hump... how young and vaccuous you must be... you'll learn. sadly not before youve been used abused and dumped. (many times over)
personality is the defining factor in any relationship.. theres more to a relationship than sex... as you'll find out.
and learn about contraception... its the only cure for stretch marks
2007-02-16 22:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋