how could i ask in a sulty way if a girl i like , if she's dating anyone without her knowing i want to ask her out.
there's a justin timberlake concert in april i have 2 tickets for and i know she like's him also, and even mention that her friends had tickets ,and she'd like to go.
i really would like to see the concert with her.
but i so don't want to make a jerk of myself
by asking her on a date if she is already dating someone .
i just worked up the guts to say more than two words today
and she is so friendly always.i don't want that to change.
and worried of making a fool of myself please help.
i'm 22 years old by the way not a kid which is so lame.
honest answers please
2007-02-16 22:35:10 · 10 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say go for it! im 18 im not a kid either lol. most girls like a guy who is forward and direct nd speaks what hey want. it just confuses and frustrates me, at least when guys r shy and beat around the bush and give mixed signals where u cant tell if they like u. if u think theres a possibility of her being interested in you, ask. it wont hurt. its not like she will hate you forver n stop talking to u. obviously u care about this girl really and so show her you genuinely care and want to invite her to the concert. but you can still be casual about it like hey i got two tickets bla bla wanna come with me all that. u dont have to make it a big thing where your afraid of coming off a certain way. i know i struggle with this a lto i wanna talk to random ppl and ask ppl out or if they like me or soemthing but im scared too if theyll think im weird. i mean as a guys perspective how would u feel if a random girl just tells u ur hot or attrative or whatver i mean do u freak out and think shes weird or do u like it and start to take an interest. i dunno. but as for women, we like when guys ask us out even if its just casual because we feel loved and special and someone cares, even if it is a friend or a crush or wht not
2007-02-16 22:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by coatedwithroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and start building up regular conversations with her. Then after a while, casually ask her if she is seeing someone. Chances are that if she is being really friendly to you and hanging with friends then she must be single. When you feel ready, mention to her that you noticed that she likes Justin Timberlake and that you have a spare ticket to take someone if she is interested. The trick is to be ultra casual. The worst thing that could happen is she might say no, but big deal! She will be flattered and admire you more for asking and that is not a bad thing!
2007-02-16 22:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Shahrukh Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok huni wel friends is a good place to start off!!be friendly back take every opportunity to talk to her!girls like when guys make the effort to talk to them!get talkin to her friends n im sure it will come up in convo soon enough if she is dating anyone!be yourself at all times dont ever try and be some one your not to impress a girl!at 22 your still finding yourself so dont worry about that n i think the fact that your shy around this girl only shows how much you like her!april is a good bit off yet so no worries..drop it into convo you have tickets bt noone to take n just subtly pluck up the courage to ask her to go with you!!if you dont ask you wont ever know what her response would have been just bite the bullet!!good luck xx
2007-02-16 22:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's sooo lucky (I love Justin Timberlake) LOL>
Just go to her and tell her 'I got tickets for Justin
Timberlake' do you want to come with me?'
Easy as that!!
Can,t make out though you said her friends say
she likes him - why can,t you ask them if she
has already got a b/f?
You won,t make a fool of yourself. You sound really
nice. I mean - who would turn a concert down?
2007-02-16 22:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you already got 2 tickets..
say someone wants to give you 2 tickets
for free if you got someone to watch the
concert with you.. but a shame that you
don't know who wanna come..
then pretend and ask,, "do you know anyone? "
By this, you'll get an answer, she can say she
wants to come,, or she doesn't know anyone..
then you may ask if she wants to come . .
if she's in a friendly mode.
Hope things will work out for you
2007-02-16 22:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOF you will be okay - just be yourself!
Just say something like - i was wondering if you are seeing anyone just now cos i have two tickets for this gig and would like you to go with me
Thinking about it is actually worse than walking up and doing it. The worst she can say is no - she cant shoot you!
Best of luck! XXX.
2007-02-16 22:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just follow your feelings. if you like her, dont let anything get in your way. unless youve seen her openly expressing some form of affection towards some guy, she prbly isnt dating anyone. just go see if shed like to go.
and dont worry, once you ask, it gets easier. the fact that you wanna take her to a justin timberlake concert is lamer than the fact that your uneasy.
2007-02-16 22:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Panzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure she would love to go .. does she have that look in her eyes or has too much time gone by?Is there any way to know since the time is 2 months away?
2007-02-16 22:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer ask questions. I asked one question, and in basic terms have been given 2 solutions. Even then one omit understood what i wanted. So i'm question shy. i won't be able to easily placed up an inane question. yet i visit... you purely wait! ... so my technique is to combat procrastination. perchance.
2016-10-15 12:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your best foot forward!-----dress your best smell clean---approach her and simply ask her if she is 'seeing anyone'
just do it---this is your best shot
2007-02-16 22:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋