he's very hot and cold. Tries to get my attention, teases me, if i do something for him he does something for me, sometimes i see him looking at me when i pretend i'm not looking and sometimes i do look back and it lasts a few seconds until one of us looks away.He has told me a few times that he has thought about me because he's seen or heard something that reminded him of me. The thing is he's 15 years older so he could just be being nice,but i am not sure. I haven't really had alot of experience with this stuff but he also says some other stuff too that makes me think it; more. And he has asked me to hang out before with him and his friend. said he'd pay for me and everything,but i didn't know if he was being serious although he was persistent.he kept bringing it up. sometimes he talks to me and then other times not as much. we laugh together and then sometimes he has this nervous laugh. alright i'm obseesed but i have no one else to talk to this stuff about.what do you think?
2007-02-16 22:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you but he's not sure if you are okay with the age difference.
If you like him...go hang out with him. Assuming you are over 18...if you are 15 and he's 30, stay away.
2007-02-16 22:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you sure like to talk a lot and say nothing. if you like/love someone it don't matter age difference. usually the man is older in most cases..why would a guy marry an old hag? money..??insecurity issues?? well its not normal but it happens but a old geezer with some bucks in his wallet can always find a sweet young thing..so he's a player? he just wanna have some sport at your expense..that's just the nature of the beast..look at Anna Nicolet..she played he paid and she become the American Dream girl..for awhile...sad story..but bull chit walks and money talks so play the games with him...but unless you get it in writing your are playing with fire and he will only have played you like a fiddle...if you don't know this by now..you never will.
the wise person investigates what the fool takes for granted
2007-02-17 06:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the information you gave, it sounds to me like he is one confused person. People that give mixed signals are just that...
mixed up. I would say move on. Guys are opportunists, at least the bad boy types are. He's probably just bored with his life and gets a kick out of playing with women. I had a bad experience with this type. One minute hot, one minute ignoring me. And, the truth is, it has nothing to do with you. It's because they are the ones insecure and messed up. Just work hard at being the best person you can be, inside and out. And, focus on the people in your life that really care about you.
2007-02-17 06:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 years older??? Are you blind??? He is a sick old geezer who has a thing for young girls---and you fell for all the sweettalk---God, get a grip and see him for what he is---what will you do in 10 years--push him around in a wheelchair---tell him to get lost---bet he starts with another kid just like you.....stop this and enjoy your youth---and watch out from now on---He has a problem---obsessed??? With what?? A weirdo??? Stop it and grow up
2007-02-17 06:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes married, or in a seriously damaged relationship already................run as fast as you can and dont look back, that nervous laugh and inviting you to go along with him and a friend sounds fishy to me, id check his background before going anywhere with him "and his friend"
2007-02-17 06:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure this guy isnt married/ has a partner? maybe that would account for this hot//cold routine, cos he could be indecisive as to whether he's gonna cheat with u.
2007-02-17 06:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by o o g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since he is older he may just be a friend and when he is nervous he wants to make a good impression
2007-02-17 06:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by donaldblake2007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should wait for him to smack you in the forehead with a circus mallot...could you really be this clueless?
2007-02-17 06:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just curious, but how old are you? And why does he want you to hang out with him and his friend?
2007-02-17 06:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by jlily680 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15 years is quite an obstacle----when you are 55 he will be 70
2007-02-17 06:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋