2007-02-16 22:24:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love isn't painful at all. Sure you go through tough times in love, but real love completes you. If love is painful, chances are you have the wrong girl. Don't be with someone who causes you pain. Know you are worth someone who brings you joy, someone who respects you and loves you just as much as you love them. Wait for them, it will save you lots of tears!
2007-02-16 22:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Riya 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
there is no love. just ask any women i dated. they will tell you.
Paul..he no love anyone! maybe himself..see the women don't love you if you don't a love yourself
LOVE IS NOT a reality it is only a fantasy that people made up in the middle ages like about Shake spear. Then its just Bull and full of Chit.. the only way if love could be real is if does hurt.
You see you hurt cause you could lose this person? when you have this person the pain of love will abate and you will get disillusioned and soon you will feel indifferent and then boredom and finally disgust and hate..sometimes all at once right after the honeymoon. Just marry for money, or a good money maker, or a good cook and homemaker, but never marry for love as you will wake up to reality sooner then later and live your life in quiet desperation...its the law of average..you gamble you lose..sorry
2007-02-17 06:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed all meaningful relationships are painful, but its all about degrees, love is painful, but can be great! I can say this because we both fall in love and married and living together. One thing you all should understand is there's no formula for this love thing, a guy can be hurt just as easily as the girl, i've seen broken hearted guys and it's not a pleasant sight. You might say there are more girls that get broken hearts because guys go for girls so he knows when he just wants to playaround. A girl just has to be smart but not too smart o!. So even its painful you go through it. thats my advice
2007-02-17 06:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shaji K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after any relationship breaks then it is very very painful. It is impossible to bare that pain. So only many people who are love failure commit suicide. But some face the problem & forget every thing & be happy. If U R over coming from tjis problem then then forget it & be happy. BECAUSE OUR LIFE IS VERY SHORT AND WE SHOULD ENJOY IT.
2007-02-17 06:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Chithra K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is painful because love is an emotion that is all or nothing. Either 100 percent or leave it alone. There is no side stepping and you put yourself in a very vulnerable position, which is a risk but a risk that must be taken in the persuit of happiness.
2007-02-17 06:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by jay m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If love was painful that would be love sometime love have to hear
2007-02-17 06:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because it endows some responsibilities upon us. These responsibilities are not just towards the partner but towards the family too. I mean you cannot ignore your family for your partner for if you do, you would experience pain. We fail to commit ourselves and instead nag about our partners lesser efforts. Hence we experience the pain...
:-)
2007-02-17 12:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats what makes people crave for love... maybe thats why love is precious.. cuz it means that anyone who loves u does that knowing the risk of gettin hurt... love makes u feel special that someone gives a damn about u.. and is willin to suffer pain emotionally n sometimes physically for u..
if love ain't painful, we ain't gonna care much about love... right?
2007-02-17 07:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love for me its nothing so then how painful!!!
2007-02-20 14:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by sweet bhullar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing I'm convinced we all are guilty of prematurely rubber stamping relationships "LOVE"-----I think we sometimes need time to grow and learn if we are suitable for a life-long commitment at this point in our lives
2007-02-17 06:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋